Managing Bipolar Anger And Rage

Updated October 7, 2022 by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Bipolar disorder can be hard to handle. And when you also have unwanted anger and rage, it can be even more challenging. The emotions that often accompany bipolar disorder can have a negative impact on your social life and self-esteem. Luckily, there are tools to help you manage symptoms of bipolar disorder and anger so you can enjoy a happier, calmer life.

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Understanding Bipolar Types And Symptoms

According to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), bipolar disorder (formerly known as manic depression) is a mental illness that causes "unusual shifts in mood, energy, activity levels, and the ability to carry out daily tasks." There are four categories of this disorder, which are sorted based on the highs (mania) and lows (depression) that the patient experiences. Understanding these different types and relevant symptoms can significantly improve your ability to manage the disorder.

  • Bipolar I Disorder - Manic episodes last for at least one week (seven days) and can lead to severe symptoms that require immediate medical attention. A similar cycle generally occurs during depressive episodes.
  • Bipolar II Disorder - This type is known for depressive episodes and less severe manic episodes (hypomania).
  • Cyclothymic Disorder (Cyclothymia) - With this type, the patient presents with several hypomanic and depressive symptoms that can be mild or severe. It can last up to two years in adults and one year in children and adolescents.
  • Related Disorders (Unspecified) -This is a form of bipolar disorder categorized by the same symptoms of mania without the levels necessary for a diagnosis of bipolar I, bipolar II, or cyclothymia.

Bipolar Mania Vs. Depression

Bipolar disorder causes shifts between manic episodes and depressive episodes. Manic episodes include:

  • Elevated elation
  • High levels of energy
  • Increased activity levels
  • Jitters
  • Irritability
  • Fast speech
  • Increased risk-taking

Depressive episodes include:

  • Sad or down feelings
  • Lower activity levels and energy
  • Too much or too little sleep
  • A feeling of hopelessness
  • Overwhelming worry
  • Lack of concentration
  • Too much or too little eating
  • Suicidal thoughts and actions

If you or a loved one is experiencing suicidal thoughts, reach out for help immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline can be reached at 1-800-273-8255 and is available 24/7.

Bipolar Anger Outbursts

Anger and rage are symptoms that often accompany bipolar disorder. These symptoms can be seen in both manic and depressive episodes. Furthermore, they're usually difficult to stop and often need to run their course once they begin. While these outbursts can affect you and the people around you, there are ways to handle them.

Tools For Living With Bipolar Disorder

Anger and rage can be difficult emotions to experience, but there are a wide variety of ways to reduce your symptoms so that you can be happier and healthier. You deserve to enjoy your days, and the tools below can help you start on the path to doing so.

Know Yourself

If you want to reduce your anger, it can help to think about past events to find out what causes your emotions. It may also help to monitor your emotions to see how they evolve over time. To do this effectively, you may want to keep a mood journal or download a mood app that helps you track your ups and downs throughout the day.

Your emotions and body are connected, so it's possible that physical changes like exhaustion or hunger often prompt emotional outbursts. After a few days of tracking your mood, you might notice that you typically struggle right before lunch. Then, you may conclude that eating more often can improve your mood overall. 

Take A Timeout

When anger and rage appear, you may feel like you are no longer in control. It's important to take a timeout when these symptoms arise so you have the time and space to calm down. During this time alone, you can do something that helps you relax. Exercise, read, or simply breathe. When you feel better, spend a few minutes reflecting on what caused these emotions so that you can avoid that situation in the future.

Keep A Journal

Journaling works in two ways. It reduces stress, which can prompt anger, and it allows you to understand what brings on these feelings. You can write in a notebook or a special journal, or you can even take notes on your phone. The way you write is not important—it's the information and the release that will help you.

Lean On Others

Although friends and family will likely support you through the highs and lows of living with bipolar disorder, they may have a hard time understanding what you're going through. That's why support groups are a wonderful resource.  These groups are great places to both vent and gain advice. You can also look into local support resources that are available in person or online.

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Request Patience From Family

Bipolar disorder doesn't only affect the person with the disorder; it can also affect the people around them. If your family and friends want to know how they can help you, ask them for patience. Bipolar anger and rage are part of the condition, and they are not your fault. It's best to be aware of and learn about the condition if you and your loved ones want to treat it in a positive way. Make sure your family knows that the anger and rage are not personal; they're just symptoms.

Therapy For Bipolar Disorder

Participating in talk therapy can make a significant difference in your life. It can help you learn to manage the often-complicated feelings that come with bipolar disorder and other mental health concerns. If you're thinking about therapy and you're not sure where to start, consider an online option. Research suggests that online therapy is an effective form of treatment for patients living with mood disorders. One study found that internet-delivered treatment based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) could be an effective way to treat bipolar symptoms in some patients.

BetterHelp has a team of licensed therapists who can connect with you remotely. You won't need to worry about finding time for an appointment in your busy schedule or getting stuck in traffic on your way to an office across town. A therapist can help you manage the complex symptoms of bipolar disorder or other challenges. See below for reviews of BetterHelp counselors who have worked with people in similar situations.

Counselor Reviews

“I have been suffering from bipolar disorder for more than 15 years. I have spent three weeks so far counseling with Amie. Amie really listens and encourages you to take the next steps in your own development. At the start, she recommended I join a peer support group, and I did, and it was really helpful. I would recommend Amie to anyone who cares about their treatment and want an attentive and responsible therapist.”

“Bailey is grounded, understanding, genuine, empathetic, and experienced in a variety of different counseling and therapy practices. I feel like she meets me at my level, gives honest and helpful feedback, is reliable, and has been more effective in her methods of teaching me viable coping mechanisms that aid in me living successfully with anxiety, bipolar depression, and PTSD. In fact, her sessions have helped me more than any other professionals have or other methods I’ve tried including, psychiatrists, nurses, naturopathic doctors, homeopathic doctors, other therapists, and medications. She’s able to give me weekly feedback in real time that I can use to address situations as they come up. I highly recommend Bailey for so many reasons, but my number one reason besides how knowledgeable she is, is her ability to meet me on my level. I feel like we’re equals in conversation instead of professional and patient. This facilitates my feeling able to talk about anything and everything with her without feeling judged. Because of this we’ve been able to tackle parts of my psyche that I have held back from other mental health professionals. I always look forward to our sessions. Even when they are difficult, they are effective. I feel like I’ve made more progress in my overall emotional and mental health with Bailey in a handful of months than I had in several years combined prior to this. Thank you, Bailey. You chose the right professional to help others, and I’m very grateful that I’ve found you as my counselor.”

Conclusion

The symptoms of anger and rage that often accompany bipolar disorder can take a significant toll on your quality of life. If you're struggling with these emotions, you're not alone. Help is available in many forms. You can and will enjoy a happier, healthier life with the right tools and support. Take the first step today.

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