The Dangers Of Private Chat Rooms Online

By Nicola Kirkpatrick

Updated December 06, 2018

Reviewer Deborah Horton


Private chat rooms online can seem like a great idea. They're a way for you to communicate with people from all over the world via text or video, something that was never possible in the past.

If you're feeling lonely or struggling with mental illness, you might find comfort in talking to random people about your problems, because they don't know about your past. It's also a lot easier to open up online when you aren't facing the person and will probably never meet them in real life.

While these advancements in technology are great, there are several dangers of using private online chat rooms, especially for people who are vulnerable or simply not tech savvy.

The Dangers of Private Chat Rooms Online

  1. Trolls

The internet has a lot of great things to offer us, but of course there's always someone looking to spoil the party. Trolls are people who like to create drama online by sharing offensive things, starting arguments, and generally being mean without reason.


If you're feeling insecure about yourself or struggling emotionally, the last thing you need to do is get caught up with a troll. They don't care about your emotional state and if you don't realize that they aren't worth the trouble, they can end up making you feel worse.

  1. Online Predators

As bad as trolls are, they are just the tip of the iceberg. There are worse than internet trolls online, like actual predators who could befriend you with the intention to scam you for money or worse, stalk you. This might sound extreme, but it's important to know that not everyone in private online chat rooms has good intentions.


  1. Impermanence of Online Relationships

Have you ever heard of this TV show, Catfish? It's basically about people who pretend to be someone they're not online. They could be doing this for a variety of reasons.

Even if you're talking to the person they say they are, you could build a strong connection with them and one day - POOF, they've disappeared, and you have no way of contacting them again.

A Safer Alternative

You can see that even though private online chat rooms can be fun and exciting when you want someone to talk to, they also come with their fair share of risks. If you want to connect with someone online, there are safer ways to go.


Online counselling is one option that has recently been gaining popularity. Affordable and convenient services like BetterHelp can connect you with an experienced counsellor who you can exchange unlimited messages with.

If you're struggling with mental health or emotional problems, a counsellor can help provide you with better support and teach you coping mechanisms that can have long-lasting positive effects on your life. A counsellor also won't disappear on you like an online friend might.


It's up to you whether or not you choose to take part in private chat rooms online now that you know the risks that are involved. Meeting new people on the internet can be an excellent way to form new relationships with people you never would have met otherwise, but it's important to always be aware.

Don't let trolls bother you, for example, and be careful about what personal information you share online. Be skeptical of anyone who tells you a sob story to get you to send them money. These types of things should put up a red flag for you.

If you're looking for support through a tough time, know that online counselling is a safe and secure alternative.

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