Best Way To Say Goodnight: Are You Looking For A Cute Way To Say Goodnight?

Updated October 7, 2022by BetterHelp Editorial Team

"Good night, sleep tight, and don't let the bedbugs bite!" That's a sentiment that carries a lot of familiarity for most people. You might even have some fond memories of saying it to someone you love or vice versa. It's short and sweet, has a touch of humor, and it's something you could say to most anyone.

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It's common courtesy to tell someone goodnight when they are in your presence, regardless of who it is. When you put more effort into coming up with a cute way to say goodnight, you make it meaningful and memorable for them.

What Is The Power Of Saying Goodnight To Your Children?

When you're a parent, you've usually developed a bedtime routine with your children from a young age. Many times, when we think of saying goodnight to someone, this is what you're thinking about. Young children require you to tuck them in at night or put them to bed. It helps them to feel safe, secure, and loved and helps naturally increase bonding.

A bedtime routine may include things like putting on their pajamas, brushing their teeth, listening to a bedtime story – or two or three of them – and checking under the bed or in the closet for monsters. At the very end is saying goodnight and letting your little one know that you love them. This can also become part of the routine and something that children long to hear or experience every night.

Wishing goodnight to each other or even a goodnight kiss can go a long way in establishing a sense of intimacy and love between each other. Such meaningful moments can add up to help form a healthy relationship.

As a parent, you may be exhausted at the end of the day. And if you’re a stay-at-home parent, you may look forward to those hours after your children are in bed. Instead of thinking of fun, cute ways to tuck them in, like saying, “Goodnight, sleep tight, don’t let the bed bugs bite,” you may try to go through the motions quickly so you can relax. However, you can move bedtime from feeling like a chore to a more enjoyable experience with a little bit of work.

For example, teach your children things like saying, “Starlight, star bright, first star I see tonight. I wish I may, I wish I might have the wish I wish tonight,” and then wish on a star before bed to help make it a fun, enjoyable, and memorable routine for both of you. Another example is putting up some glow in the dark stars on your child’s ceiling and creating a ritual of both laying down and looking at them and pointing out imaginary constellations before bed.

Saying Goodnight To Your Significant Other

We all have busy days, and at the end of the day, all you might feel like doing is collapsing into bed and falling asleep. Because of this, it's easy to get into the pattern of forgetting to say goodnight to your partner, especially if you are going to sleep at separate times of the night. However, this can be an important way to communicate that you love them and are thinking about them.

A great way to say goodnight without using words with your significant other is to stay awake until they are ready to go to sleep. This way, you can fall asleep together and enjoy the last moments of the day together.

Saying "goodnight" to each other says a lot more than have a good night, and a goodnight kiss can go a long way.

If you have to go to sleep without your partner, such as working separate shifts, you could leave a love note for them, letting them know you hope they had a great workday or wishing them goodnight. You might also want to incorporate your favorite terms of endearment

Why Do We Say Goodnight?

There doesn't appear to be one clear-cut reason why we do this. Many people believe it's just a nice thing to do in the same way we say "good morning" to someone when we see them for the first time in the morning.

Whatever the actual reason is, there are a few things that we can communicate by saying a simple “goodnight.” We can mean it as a way of wishing someone a wonderful night's sleep. It's a good way to end the day and to let someone know that we care.

Using Words As A Cute Way To Say Goodnight

Look for short quotes and sayings that make your loved ones feel special as you send them off to dreamland. They can be stock quotes like "Good night, sleep tight…" or they can be new and original.

The delivery counts, too. Whisper them sweetly or be creative with a rhyme or rap. Enhance the meaning by repeating it now and again and making it "your thing." Here are some sweet, sleepy-time love quotes or pick up lines:

  • I love you more
  • Always kiss me goodnight
  • Goodnight; I'll sleep with you in my heart
  • Goodnight; I'll meet you in my dreams
  • Goodnight, sweetheart
  • Love you to the moon and back

If you have small children, you can even read them the book Good Night Moon and then have them help you say goodnight to the things that are all over their room.

Alternatively, if you’d like to change things up, instead of saying a classic “goodnight,” you could try saying "night, night," "sweet dreams," or something similar. If you're saying goodnight to a spouse or partner, you can say something like, "goodnight gorgeous, have beautiful dreams tonight." The best goodnight is what means the most to you and helps you both feel loved and special in some way.

Using Actions As A Cute Way To Say Goodnight

People in your life feel loved by your words and by your actions. Here are some things you can do that show someone that you love them and are thinking about them in the final moments of the day.

  • Leave a sweet note on their pillow with love quotes or hilarious pick-up lines.
  • Set out a few chocolate kisses on their pillow
  • Write a short, sweet poem or rhyme for them, like a Haiku
  • Leave them a clue or puzzle to solve like the word "head" written above the word "heels" (head over heels)
  • Break into a spontaneous pillow fight to end the day with some fun
  • Pamper them by preparing the bed –roll back covers, set out slippers and a robe, and so on
  • Rub their back as they fall asleep

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Using Social Media As A Cute Way To Say Goodnight

Nearly everyone has a favorite social media outlet. Pick the social media outlet your loved one prefers most and surprise them with a goodnight message. Here are some more cute ways to say goodnight:

  • Send a text with a kissing emoji or one with hearts for eyes
  • Send a simple text saying “goodnight”
  • Post a photo from earlier in the day on Instagram
  • Send a goodnight message on Facebook chat or another instant messenger platform
  • Send a short and sappy Snapchat
  • Post on Facebook a list of all the reasons why you are thankful that you had them to spend the day with and include a “goodnight” in the end.

The message doesn't have to be anything flirty or racy or overly complicated. It just needs to be sincere. Cutely saying goodnight can make the recipient feel extraspecial, and that's a good feeling for most everyone as they rest their head on a pillow. You may even have so much fun with it that you make it a habit! 

If you are struggling in your relationships and with communication, worrying about something as simple as saying "goodnight" might seem a long way off. If this is where you are, then you could benefit from talking to a therapist. They can help you work through your struggles and learn how to improve your communication skills to in turn improve your relationships.

The sessions are online, which means you don't have to go to appointments physically, and you can still get the help you need. With over 20,000 certified, experienced, vetted therapists with a plethora of specialties, there is a therapist who can – and wants to – help. And if they aren’t the right fit for you, you can switch therapists at any time, no hassle.

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