Become Closer With Online Relationship Counseling

By: Nicole Beasley

Updated October 05, 2021

Medically Reviewed By: Denise Doster

A happy, open relationship with your spouse or partner can be an enormous source of strength, however neglecting your connection can cause it to wither imperceptibly, until you wake up one day and can’t understand where things went wrong. It’s very sad when this happens, mostly because it is usually completely unnecessary to let a relationship deteriorate to this point. Among the many things you can do to avert this state of affairs, getting online relationship counseling is one that often has the most rapid effects.

The Basics of Improving Relationships

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The first thing you might want to do is to forget everything television and movies have taught you about romance. A story always must have an ending, which is of course where the phrase “happily ever after” comes from. It would completely spoil the narrative if a footnote is added to tell you that Romeo and Juliet would have had trouble conceiving children together, or that Cinderella’s prince had an affair with his secretary later in life.

Real life is much less perfect. People change over the years; financial problems crop up and in-laws stir up trouble. You should know all this when you’re starting a relationship and accept that dealing with the challenges to come will require effort and understanding.

While you should not expect anybody, including your partner, to do the work for you, better communication between you can lead to all kinds of problems being effectively addressed long before they become serious burdens. The basis of couples counseling is usually not two people talking to a therapist, but two people learning how to talk with each other with the help of a therapist.

When to Seek Online Couples Counseling

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Most licensed family and relationship counselors’ practices only run from nine to five on weekdays, sometimes making it difficult for not one but two people to regularly find time in their schedule for appointments. Online couples counseling, by contrast, can be done at any time from home, using either text chat, phone conversations or video conferencing. The therapists accessed in this way are qualified to exactly the same level as offline counselors, while telephonic or text counseling has been shown to be just as effective as form of treatment as conventional, face to face sessions.

Most couples, even though they’re aware that their relationship is under strain, wait far too long before trying to access professional help. If you see cracks appearing in your marriage, and you cannot effectively deal with the issue between the two of you, professional counseling can save years of unhappiness and heartbreak. Doing nothing, on the other hand, will rarely cause the problem to go away by itself and can even cause relatively minor irritations to balloon up into something that can lead to the end of your time together.

Couples counseling prior to marriage has long been done by various religious groups, and may soon be mandatory in Colorado. This is purely because pre-marriage counseling has been proven to lead to marriages that are both more fulfilling and longer lasting. Even if a couple is certain that they know each other well, exploring their relationship under professional guidance can often reveal many unexpected facets of their desires, expectations and personal values.

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Bringing you and your partner closer together is a lifelong process founded on open and appropriate communication. While there might not be any single way to best achieve this, couples counseling will often point out things that can be done better, as well as things to start avoiding.


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