Building Resilience: Improving Mental Health Outcomes For LGBTQIA+ Individuals

Medically reviewed by April Justice, LICSW
Updated April 25, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

The challenges and setbacks that individuals encounter often require youth development of resilience—an ability to adapt to the trials and adversities you experience. Resilience may allow you to work through and move past trying events like job loss, the death of a loved one, illness, or relationship conflict.

There are ways to strengthen your resilience through resilience training, and resilience can also be built during and after traumatic events as people seek strategies to adapt and thrive amid adversity. For many people in the LGBTQIA+ community, adversity may be a daily struggle. Understanding how to develop resilience when you experience identity-related oppression or other challenges can be valuable and increase your safety and contentment with life.

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What is resilience?

The American Psychological Association defines resilience as “the process and outcome of successfully adapting to difficult or challenging life experiences, especially through mental, emotional, and behavioral flexibility and adjustment to external and internal demands.” Studies have shown that high adolescent resilience can reduce the risk of mental health challenges.

Various factors can affect how well people can adapt to adversity. These protective factors can include how an individual sees the world, the quality of social and health resources around them, and their individual coping strategies. Many people experience challenging times in life, so the ability to adapt and persevere may be crucial, and research shows that resilience can be cultivated over time.

Resilience for LGBTQIA+ individuals

Resilience can benefit those in the LGBTQIA+ community, who often experience high levels of prejudice and unique stressors that can cause psychological distress and personal crises. They may face overt actions, including microaggressions, discrimination, or ostracization. In addition, they may often experience negative social attitudes that they have internalized, causing them to hide their identity or feel ashamed. These stressors can lead to chronic stress, physical conditions, and mental health problems without proper support. The American Psychological Association provides resources for promoting resiliency for gender-diverse and sexual minority school students.

A 2015 article in the Journal of Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity by Ilan H. Meyer, Ph.D., a Williams Distinguished Senior Scholar of Public Policy at the Williams Institute for Sexual Orientation Law and Public Policy at UCLA’s School of Law, showcases how resiliency can impact the LGBTQIA+ community. 

According to the article, minority stress refers to the idea that the stigma toward LGBTQIA+ people brings about unique stressors, which can negatively affect adult and adolescent health. In coping with stress, both individual resilience and community resilience are vital.

What is minority stress?

The minority stress model created by Dr. Meyer asserts that minority stress stems from the clash between social and psychological theories about minority and dominant values and conflicts with the social environment experienced by individuals of a minority group. Because of this discordance, racial and ethnic minorities often experience conflict with society, which can lead to long-term negative outcomes. This conflict can look like harassment, maltreatment, victimization, and discrimination. It can also affect the availability of healthcare.

The minority stress model differs from general stress theory because a minority’s stress is impacted by their identity. It can also be further impacted by a person’s role in other minority groups, such as ethnic or racial groups. When a person has multiple identities contributing to their stress or challenges, their needs may fall under intersectionality, which is the cross between their unique minority stress factors for each identity and how they combine. 

What is individual resilience? 

Research has shown that resilience can be found on a personal level and within specific minority communities, like the LGBTQIA+ community. Individual resilience is found on a personal level. It refers to the thoughts and actions that help a person adapt to adversity. A person’s upbringing and personality traits can impact their resilience. 

In his study, Meyer asserts that a focus on individual resilience is rooted in a Western ideology that prioritizes individualism and personal triumph. He asserts that expecting individual resilience can be unfair because opportunity structures are often uneven throughout society. Not everyone has the same social, economic, and political footing to be prepared to handle challenges successfully.

Meyer suggests that there is a danger that only focusing on individual resilience can result in survivor blaming by expecting everyone to be resilient no matter their resources or past experiences with culture. This focus could lead to issues in public policy by removing social responsibility to defend minority populations. In addition, an expectation that individuals should be resilient against adversity rather than trying to correct or remove the stressors causing harm could occur. 

These concerns with individual resilience drive the concept of community resilience, which refers to how communities help each individual strengthen their ability to support their well-being through social connection. In community resilience, available public health systems are utilized to better the community’s behavioral, physical, and social health. The onus for resilience is also placed on public policies, structures, and social systems, rather than solely on individuals.

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Why is community resilience beneficial for the LGBTQI+ community? 

Community resilience often occurs through designing and implementing resources and policies that support the needs of those in a community. For the LGBTQIA+ population, this could include support groups for increased perceived social support, advocacy via a non-profit organization, support through community partners, and 24/7 hotlines. Although some of these resources can touch the lives of each person, some require individuals to take action to utilize them, such as physically going to an LGBTQIA+ community center to encourage resilience or connecting with a mentor.

Even when resources are available to build community resilience, other factors could prevent people from using them. If individuals don’t feel comfortable associating with the LGBTQIA+ community for stigma or other reasons, they may not have a way into the assets that build community resilience.

Building your resilience

With time and practice, you may be able to strengthen resilience. To start, consider trying the below techniques to try to become better prepared for emotionally challenging events that lie ahead.

Practice mindfulness

Mindfulness meditation can allow an individual to focus their thoughts on the present directly. Some research has found that mindfulness may help to breed resilience. If you are new to meditation, you may find it helpful to try a guided mindfulness meditation using resources available for free online. 

Cultivate forgiveness

Studies have found a connection between forgiveness and resilience. Forgiveness can be a choice to release resentment and anger so that those feelings don’t control your life. Forgiveness does not necessarily mean that you are allowing or excusing a person’s actions if they have harmed you. It can mean you choose not to allow those actions to impact your joy and growth. 

Write down and reframe your thoughts

Ruminating about an adverse event or experience can cause mental health challenges. This habit can make it challenging to move forward. To build resilience, consider spending 20 minutes a day writing about how you feel. Type it up in a document, record it in your phone notes, or write it down in a journal. Then, consider whether the experience ultimately prompted positive outcomes, including self-growth or a crucial lesson. Doing a practice like this may help you build resilience.

Seek professional support 

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Some situations can be challenging to navigate on your own. During especially strenuous times, it can help to lean on others for support. Support could look like reaching out to your family members or friends to discuss your feelings and finding validation through those conversations. It could also look like taking advantage of community resilience resources like support groups and specialized community centers.

Get support with online therapy

In addition, you may consider seeking help from a trained professional. Suppose you are navigating a challenging life event or situation. In that case, you may feel emotionally or physically drained, and the idea of finding and meeting with a therapist in person may feel exhausting. In these cases, online therapy could be beneficial, as you can match with and meet with a licensed therapist wherever you have an internet connection—including your home. An online therapist through a platform like BetterHelp or PrideCounseling for the LGBTQIA+ community can work with you to build your resilience and be better prepared to work through stressors that arise, including significant and minor challenges.  

In addition, research has shown that online therapy can effectively cultivate individuals’ resilience. For instance, one study examined the effect of internet-based cognitive behavioral counseling compared to face-to-face counseling on students’ resilience. It found that both forms of counseling significantly increased research participant’s resilience and that “there was no significant difference in the effectiveness of internet-based cognitive behavioral counseling and face-to-face therapy.”

Takeaway

Resilience refers to adapting to a life challenge and moving forward. Resilience can be valuable for groups that tend to experience additional adversity, such as people of the LGBTQIA+ community. There are ways to cultivate resilience, including using the strategies detailed above. For additional guidance, a licensed therapist may provide tools and support to help you face life’s challenges.
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