What Types Of Stressors Are There And How Can I Deal With Them?

By: Mary Elizabeth Dean

Updated November 11, 2021

Medically Reviewed By: Heather Cashell

Stress is a part of everyday life, but if most of us had our way, it wouldn't even exist. We hear the word stress often. People say, "I'm under so much stress!" or "I'm stressed out right now!" Stress negatively impacts our minds, bodies, and performance, but what can cause stress? These are known as stressors; learning more about stressors can help set you on the path to reducing your exposure and negative reactions to them.

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What are Stressors?

The word 'stressors' and the word 'stress' sound similar, but they do have different meanings. Stress is a bodily reaction, and stressors are what create that reaction. In other words, a stressor is any stimulus that produces mental or physical stress. Notice that we define stressors as stimuli. They are something that causes a stress reaction, but they aren't the stress itself. This is an important fact to keep in mind when you're dealing with stress because separating the stress from the stressor can help you understand what to do about it.

Stressors are the triggers behind the stress we face every day. They're the things we're exposed to or the things we are dealing with internally. They are the signs that tell our minds and our bodies that something is happening that will require us to do something hard or difficult. While there are many ways that we respond to stressors, there are even more ways that we can deal with them. If you feel extremely stressed and continually react negatively and unhealthily to stressors in your life- to the point where it is impacting your daily life-, you are not alone.

We all experience stress at one time or another. It is a part of being human; if you are willing to make the right changes or reach out for help, you can learn new ways to handle stress and stressors.

How We Respond To Stressors

Stressors are so named because they cause a stress reaction. In other words, if something didn't cause you stress, it wouldn't be a stressor for you. So, what is this stress response like? Well, it can be a physical and/or mental response.

How The Body Responds To Stress

When a stressor appears, it triggers the body's nervous system. The nervous system sends several signals to the body, some of which trigger a 'flight or flight' response in the body. The body then shifts to focus on the threatening situation or event and continues to send signals. Below we outline the different signals sent throughout the body- all of which comprise your body's physical response to stressors.

  • The amygdala triggers the hypothalamus, the command center of the for the stress reaction, by sending a signal that tells your body you're in a threatening situation.
  • The adrenal glands sense the signals and release cortisol, noradrenaline, and adrenaline; this causes your heart rate and respiration to speed up. Blood vessels dilate in your arms and legs, and the digestive system starts increasing blood sugar levels.
  • The musculoskeletal system reads the stress signals and causes your muscles to become tense and taut.
  • The cardiovascular system causes your heart rate to speed up, and this also causes your heart to pump more blood through your large blood vessels and heart.
  • The endocrine system is signaled by the hypothalamus to produce stress hormones, which gives you energy and tells your digestive system to get to work to produce glucose in your liver.
  • The gastrointestinal system can cause you to eat more or eat different foods. Butterflies in your stomach start because your brain is in a state of heightened awareness and picks up the slightest sensations in your stomach. You may also have diarrhea or constipation because of the changed rate of digestion.
  • The reproductive system reacts differently in men and women. In men, this means a rush of testosterone and possibly heightened arousal. In women, PMS may include flair, menstruation may stop or become irregular, and arousal may decrease.

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How The Mind Responds To Stress

The effects of being in that fight-or-flight mode may be mental as well. The short-term mental effects may include a heightened sense of awareness and focus. However, the stress may also show up in more negative ways, such as:

  • Feeling anxious or fearful
  • Feeling frustrated
  • Feeling angry
  • Feeling helpless
  • Having trouble dealing with everyday tasks
  • Having mood changes
  • Being irritable
  • Overreacting
  • Feeling impatient
  • Feeling restless
  • Feeling rejected
  • Worrying
  • Feeling out of control
  • Feeling confused
  • Feeling overwhelmed
  • Having poor work performance
  • Losing your sense of humor
  • Having trouble concentrating
  • Showing poor judgment
  • Developing irrational fears and phobias
  • Increased use of alcohol, tobacco, and drugs

If the stressors don't go away and you don't learn to reduce your stress response, the long-term effects on your mental health can be extremely serious.

Does Everyone Respond the Same to the Same Stimuli?

The types of stressors that set you into fight-or-flight may be common, such as being in a car wreck or being a victim of a crime. The stimuli that trigger the stress response also can be highly individualized. For example, if an abusive parent hit you with a broom when you misbehaved, the sight of the broom might trigger a response in you, while for most people it would mean nothing more than a reminder of work to be done.

Types Of Stressors

What are the types of stressors that trigger such an overwhelming cascade of reactions in your body and mind? Read this list of the types and examples of stressors below to understand each one better. Then, if you want, you can create a list of stressors that you deal with in your life.

Biological Stressors vs. Psychological Stressors

Biological stressors are those that you notice in your body first. They include the full range of illnesses and injuries. For example, have you ever noticed that you're more irritable when you're in pain? When that happens, the pain in your body is causing a stress response. Biological stressors can also be more subtle. If your body is fighting off an infection, your physical and mental processes can be affected.

Psychological stressors are those that come from your mind. One example is when sensory clues around you remind you of a past psychological trauma and cause you to relive the experience or feel the same emotions. The physical threat is over at that point; now, the threat comes from your memory of the event or situation.

Psychological stressors can also include pressure situations, such as meeting a deadline or taking a test. There is no biological threat here; you're stressed because of whatever meaning you ascribe to the situation. For example, being late with the assignment or failing the test. Others may make it clear that you will suffer if you fail to meet their expectations. Fearing they're right, you put psychological pressure on yourself to meet their expectations.

Acute Stressors vs. Chronic Stressors

Acute stressors may show up suddenly and be gone in a very short time. These short-term stressors place an enormous strain on your mind and body and can include things such as a job interview or an argument with a loved one. An acute stressor can trigger anything from a heart attack to a mental breakdown. However, because they are gone so quickly, acute stressors don't have the gradual wearing effect on the body and mind that long-term stressors cause.

Chronic stressors are the ones that persist over a longer period. You may be under constant pressure for months or even years, with your body and mind staying in a constant state of readiness. These chronic stressors usually occur in high-risk jobs, abusive relationships, and other long-term situations in which you always feel you have to be on your guard. Eventually, chronic stressors can take a toll on every system in your body. Your mind may come to interpret all the information coming from your senses in terms of how it will impact you in this long-term situation, which can cause your mental health to suffer.

Positive Stressors vs. Negative Stressors

Can there be a positive stressor? Hans Selye wrote about the stress reaction in 1936. and by the 1970s, he was writing about what he termed "eustress." Eustress, or good stress, is the stress we feel that pushes us to do more, experience more, and achieve more. Positive stressors have the same biological effects as the negative stressors we're more familiar with, but we might interpret them differently. Examples of situations where you may experience eustress include work promotions, having a baby, or buying a house. The main thing to remember about eustress is that it helps your body and mind be at its best when you need them most. If you interpret the stressor as positive, your biological response won't cause you any distress. As Selye eloquently put it, "Stress is not what happens to you, but how you react to it."

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Environmental Stressors vs. Internal Stressors

Environmental stressors are the stressors you experience from the world around you and take in via your five senses. Psychologists use the term "environmental stressors" when referring to stimuli that are coming to you from outside yourself. Cold weather, loud noises, darkness, and colors are examples of stressors termed environmental.

Internal stressors come from within you. They can include thoughts and emotions that you experience within yourself, which aren't inherently present in your environment. Examples of stressors include the pressure you put on yourself to perform perfectly, feelings of inadequacy, and behaviors that you feel you can't control. Many groups of people experience internal stressors to include those in the education system. College students' stressors are often based on these internal thoughts and emotions that cause them to stay in alert mode constantly. While these are certainly college student stressors, they can also be teacher stressors, too, because of the high expectations and demands on them in the educational system.

Psychosocial Stressors

Walter Cannon, born in 1871, was a medical doctor and scientist who studied the physiology of emotions. Cannon coined the term homeostasis, which refers to the tendency of the body to strive toward equilibrium. When you feel stressed, it is because something indicates to you that your equilibrium is about to be disrupted. As he studied this field, Walter Cannon observed that a variety of things can trigger psychosocial stressors.

Psychosocial is a term psychologists and sociologists use to refer to the way social factors, thoughts, and behaviors interrelate. Psychosocial stressors include relationship stressors and other social stressors. For example, people who have social anxiety are suffering from a condition in which their anxious thoughts and behaviors are both affected by and affect their social interactions.

Nearly everyone has experienced relationship stressors. After all, for as long as we live, most of us are engaged in some of the many forms of human relationships. It may be a parent-child relationship, a marriage, a sibling relationship, or another family relationship. We also have social relationships with friends, co-workers, or even the server in our favorite restaurant. So, it isn't surprising that some of these relationships can present us with stressors. We may feel that our relationship is being threatened internally by the thoughts, emotions, and behaviors we show each other. Or, the threat may come from outside the relationship, as someone else or some natural force seems to be disrupting the stability of the relationship.

How To Deal With Stressors

So, we have all these different types of stressors in our lives, and many of them are unavoidable. What can we do to relieve the stress on our bodies and minds? We can approach the problem of excessive stress in three different ways: Self-help, self-care, and help from a counselor.

Self-Help. You can read self-help books to learn more about how to deal with the stressors on your own. This can be a helpful starting point. However, what you usually get from reading is an intellectual understanding of the subject. You may not be able to integrate that knowledge into your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors without help.

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Self-Care. Self-care is what you do to take care of yourself. That means eating the right amount of healthy foods, staying hydrated, getting enough sleep, and avoiding drugs and alcohol. You also need to get some positive social interaction, which many people find in their religious community or clubs. Remember to take some time for yourself each day to relax and enjoy yourself.

Yoga. Yoga can help to calm your mind and body. There are many yoga poses that are perfect for anyone from beginners to experts. If you're looking for an easy way to blow off some steam, this is a great option!

How BetterHelp Can Help

You can also benefit from talking to a counselor if your stress is causing you emotional and physical problems. Just telling someone what you're going through can be a tremendous relief. Keep in mind, one session probably won't keep the stress response from coming back. For that, you may need to have several sessions to address the issues behind the stressors.

Typically, the first step in therapy for stress is to identify what the stressors are and make a plan for dealing with them. Your counselor can teach you techniques to make this process easier. A short-term plan might include learning problem-focused coping skills. These skills help you resolve or change the source of stress. Addressing stressors with problem-focused coping would be most characteristic of those with acute stressors. Emotion-focused coping, on the other hand, is a way of reducing the emotional impact of stressors we can't get rid of or change. Your counselor can work with you during sessions until you become adept at reducing your stress level on your own.

Licensed counselors are available at BetterHelp to talk to you anywhere you have an internet connection. You'll likely feel more in control after you explore the sources of your stress and your physical and emotional reactions to it, and at BetterHelp you can do this through live chats, texting, and even phone or video calls. When you learn how to deal with stress, your life can improve significantly. Read below for some reviews of BetterHelp counselors from people experiencing similar issues.

Counselor Reviews

"Elizabeth is amazing! I began counseling because I was in a huge transitional phase. My entire life was turned over. Elizabeth helped me manage my stress, encouraged me to take good care of myself, and steered me away from beating myself up for things that were out of my control. I'm so grateful for her guidance and insights. This has been the best counseling experience I've ever had."

"He is amazing! I have been going through a lot lately and the unknown scares. He has listened continually and gives great advice to keep my stress down and remain present in the moment."


Stress is something that we all deal with at one time or another, and if you are willing to put the work in to get the help you need, you can overcome it or at least react in a healthier way. Don't let stress steal another minute of your peace - take the first step today.

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