Some people excitedly enter therapy, whereas others face reservations. There are also times when barriers to care, like geographical location or a low-income status, make it difficult to access therapeutic resources. This can lead individuals to ask the question, “Does self-therapy work?”
Self-therapy is essentially using different therapy techniques without the assistance of a professional. Improvement can often be achieved through using books, computer courses, or free online tools that are available. Self-help methods can help us learn new skills and navigate relationships, life circumstances, and feelings more effectively. In this sense, it can be effective and helpful in many cases.
It isn’t a replacement for sessions with a professional, as there are some pieces of therapy with a professional that can’t be replicated. However, even if you see a therapist, the work and reflection that exists outside of sessions are important. Self-reflection is something that we innately use with ourselves. That’s where we listen to our thoughts with an open heart, ask for clarity, or even ask questions to understand ourselves better.
Some people might feel they prefer this approach to working with a counselor because they have a shortage of time; have difficulty leaving their homes, perhaps for physical or mental wellness reasons; want an approach that’s anonymous; or they have a financial situation that prevents them from having access to therapy.
The effectiveness of self-help therapy varies. A review of 33 different studies found that self-therapy and treatment do help with anxiety, and in another review of 34 different cases of depression, there were some benefits of this approach, mostly for those who learned cognitive-behavioral techniques.
One of the main goals of CBT treatment is for the person to learn skills that they can continue to learn and practice once treatment ends. Those who learn CBT skills on their own can use them on their own to keep feeling happy and healthy as well. Skill-building is typically one of the areas where self-help techniques thrive.
That said, it is limited. Ideally, techniques are used alongside sessions with a therapist, even if you see a provider in the short-term. This is because a professional can give guidance, reassurance, new ideas, and support from an outside perspective. They retain the information you tell them, build a sense of trust, and give you a place to sound off on how you feel honestly. You may make realizations in therapy that you wouldn’t make otherwise and access information and tools that you wouldn’t usually be able to.
While self-therapy is great for a person, CBT with a therapist can help you make more progress. Self-help treatment is usually done with limited help from a professional in some cases, but the addition of the therapist gives that extra boost. The added benefit of working with a therapist offers accountability as well as consistent encouragement. They can simply respond in a way to break down negative thought patterns that a self-help book or computer program cannot. Your treatment will likely be more standardized, clear, and regulated if you are working with a therapist versus working on your own. In addition, if a certain technique is not working for you, a counselor would be able to recommend something that might be a better fit.
It’s much like general physical healthcare; there are some things you can do on your own at home, like brushing your teeth, sleeping, and moving your body. Those things make an impact on your health and aren’t to be overlooked or downplayed! They can’t replace the role of a doctor or a dentist, however. Even if we need to see medical, dental, or mental health professionals to a varying degree, both professional help and self-help or introspection have a place in time. They both matter, and they very much so work together.
Examples Of Things You Can Learn On Your Own
Some people may be able to work out the details on their own and may use self-therapy as a way to help supplement their current sessions or support themselves if they're having a rough day. Other cases may need more personal care, which isn't a bad thing. But, if you're going to guide yourself, there are a few aspects that you should consider:
These are all aspects of self-therapy. If you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or haven’t had professional help in the past that felt like it was of quality or a good fit for you, it may be advantageous to seek out the help of a counselor.
Signs it may be time to see a therapist include:
*Please call SAMHSA’s National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) if you or someone you know is or may be living with a substance use disorder.
**If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or ideation, please contact the national suicide prevention lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 or go to their website to chat.
Self-help can assist us and support our lives in many ways, but sometimes, having that second person there makes it easier. If you have not had a successful connection with a therapist in the past, another provider may be a better fit. Options like BetterHelp make it easier and faster to find a provider who specializes in the area that you need support in. Opting for help doesn’t mean that you’ve “failed" by any stretch. In fact, quite the opposite. The two can work together, and it’s a rewarding practice to engage in both. A therapist is a specialist in this field, after all – no different than if you went to a salon to get your hair done or a mechanic to fix your car.
Technology makes it possible to receive help from home. A recent publication looked at several different studies to examine whether CBT was comparable on a computer or smart device versus face to face. The authors found that online CBT was just as effective as in-person CBT and that an online option is likely more appealing for people located in rural communities.
Some of the same hallmarks may be appealing to everyone regardless of location and negate any of the practical drawbacks compared to talking with a counselor. For example, an online option through a platform like BetterHelp means no waitlist and the ability to see a counselor anywhere you’re comfortable, as long as you have internet access.
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In the end, therapy is always about finding what is right for you. If you’re at a place in your mental health journey where you’re ready for support from a counselor, BetterHelp is here for you.
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