You have come to this website because you are seeking a way to answer some questions or resolve some kind of dilemma. My role is as a kind of "coach" to help you discover the strengths and skills you already have and to develop new ones that will help you find the answers to your questions or the resolution of your dilemma. My name is (Ms.) Toby F. Mailman. I am a New York State licensed Clinical Social Worker. I completed my degree at New York University and have been in practice with individual adults since 2001. I have worked with a diversity of clients, including diverse ethnicities, cultures, and sexual orientations. I have experience taking into consideration the norms of different cultures and the role they may play in psychotherapy. My approach to psychotherapy is to establish a relationship with a client in order to foster trust, as I believe that trust is one of the most important factors for therapy to be helpful to the client. I use different kinds of modalities, depending on what I believe would be most effective for the client. Sometimes different kinds of modalities may be useful for the same person. The modalities that I have been using include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Narrative Therapy, Body Work, Mindfulness and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy. I believe that therapy is most effective when there are regularly scheduled weekly or bi-weekly sessions. Out of respect for each other, I would advise anyone as far in advance as possible if I need to reschedule an appointment and would fully expect that the subscriber who is seeking services with me would do the same. It is always best practice to consult with me before scheduling a different appointment, since some times may already be taken by a regular weekly client, even if they look "open" on schedules that are weeks ahead. The issues I have worked on with clients include, but are not limited to: Depression Anxiety Trauma Adjustment issues Grief and mourning Immigration issues Sleep issues I hope I have an opportunity to help you improve and enrich your life, and I congratulate you on having the courage to take this step.

As a licensed therapist in Connecticut, New York, and Colorado, I specialize in supporting individuals navigating complex life transitions and personal challenges. My professional approach centers on helping clients develop resilience, self-understanding, and effective coping strategies across various domains of life. I bring expertise in addressing stress, anxiety, family dynamics, self-esteem challenges, and career difficulties. My practice focuses on supporting young adults, women, military veterans, and individuals experiencing family transitions, including divorce and blended family situations. My therapeutic style emphasizes compassionate, personalized care. I work collaboratively with clients to explore communication patterns, life purpose, and personal growth. Whether you're struggling with obsessive thoughts, caregiver stress, or seeking deeper self-love, I'm committed to creating a supportive environment where you can develop meaningful insights and practical skills. Drawing from evidence-based practices, I aim to help clients build emotional resilience, improve relationships, and move toward more fulfilling lives. I welcome individuals from diverse backgrounds and life experiences, offering a non-judgmental space for healing and transformation.

I am licensed in New York with 18 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting issues, anger management, motivation, & self esteem. I also have experience working with confidence. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

My approach is psychodynamic and other approaches, it depends on the client and what is needed. Each individual is unique as well as their issues. I have worked with substance abuse for several years, familiar with Alcoholics Anonymous and addictions. Worked for many years dealing with anxiety and depression. My approach depends on what the dynamics are within each unique situation. I'm a Christian but also respect other peoples choices.

Hello- Thanks for looking at my profile on the Better Help Site. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with an R which means I did 6 years post-Master’s experience under the supervision of a LCSW and I can bill under Medicare and Medicaid. I attended New York University and received my degree in 1992. I have 30 years of therapy experience in many different disciplines. I have supervised students in social work internships and social workers in NY obtaining their Clinical Licensure. I have worked with people across the lifespan. I am currently a Professor so I work well with College-aged adults as well. My love for empowering others to help themselves is what brings me back to therapy again and again. I believe that rapport and trustworthiness is what helps bring a therapeutic relationship to fruition. I hope I have the opportunity to work with you. Specialties: Bereavement/ Complicated Grief/ Disenfranchised Grief Intellectual and Physical Disabilities Anxiety/ Stress Depression HIV/AIDS Couples Adoption College-Aged Adults Modalities for Treatment: Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy Mindfulness Motivational Interviewing Trauma-focused Therapy Have a wonderful day!

I am licensed in Florida with 18 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, relationship issues, & trauma and abuse. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.

I am licensed in New York with 4 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, motivation, self esteem, confidence, career difficulties, & coping with life changes. I also have experience working with compassion fatigue. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.

Counseling can be scary, we often fear what we don’t know and understand, we fight against vulnerability, and working toward change of any kind is difficult. A lot of the things that we want to avoid are inevitable and it helps to have someone who can help you sort through all of things life throws at us. Counseling is collaborative and should be a partnership, one driven by you, the client ,in an open, safe, judgement-free environment. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of New York with 20 years of professional experience working with individuals, ages four and older, providing individual, group, couples and family counseling. I’m trained as a co-occurring clinician and can work with individuals with both mental health and substance use disorders. I am trained in trauma work, with a specialization in childhood trauma and specialize in co-occurring disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma related disorders, child therapy, behavioral disorders and autism spectrum disorders, with a background in disorders of sexual development and sexuality issues.

I am licensed in New York with over 20 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, & motivation, self esteem, and confidence. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!

I am licensed in New York with 23 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, coping with grief, coping with loss, motivation, self esteem, confidence, & career difficulties. I also have experience working with coping with life changes. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

In our work together, we’ll take time to understand the challenges you’re facing—whether it’s anxiety that keeps you on edge, depression that feels heavy and persistent, or the lingering impact of trauma. Rather than rushing to “fix” things, we’ll move at a pace that feels safe, focusing on gently shifting patterns and beliefs that may have once helped you cope but no longer serve the life you’re trying to build. You can expect a supportive space where compassion and honesty go hand in hand, and where you’re encouraged to show up exactly as you are. I bring curiosity, insight, and a touch of humor into our sessions, helping create a human, relatable environment that makes room for vulnerability, self-discovery, and meaningful, lasting change. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade of experience in mental healthcare and crisis work, helping people work through some of their toughest times. My approach is collaborative and strengths-based, grounded in the belief that you already carry the inner resources needed for healing. Together, we’ll explore what’s happening in your present—your thoughts, emotions, relationships, and patterns—while also gently weaving in parts of your past when it feels helpful and relevant. I aim to honor the fullness of your story: its depth, its complexity, and the resilience that runs through it. Therapy with me is active and engaging; sometimes reflective and inward-looking, other times practical and goal-oriented. The process is dynamic, evolving as your needs, insights, and confidence grow. Throughout our work, my intention is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can feel grounded and connected. I value authenticity and will show up as a real person in the room with you—steady, warm, and committed to your growth. Together, we’ll build a relationship that supports you in making meaningful shifts, cultivating self-understanding, and creating a life that feels more aligned with who you truly are.

I am a psychotherapist who works from a psychodynamic perspective, drawing on my specialized training in interpersonal psychoanalysis. I received my advanced training at the Manhattan Institute for Interpersonal Psychoanalysis. In my work, I emphasize the importance of the therapeutic relationship itself as a vehicle for insight and change. I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, and complex relational patterns. My approach is collaborative, thoughtful, and attuned to your needs. I received my Masters in Social Work at the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College. Most of my clients would describe me as insightful, warm and empathic. As an interpersonal therapist, I learn about you through our relationship and part of my mission is to reflect my insights back to you. Through this collaborative approach, I emphasize curiosity, emotional safety, and the ways early relationships continue to shape present-day experience.

I help ambitious, successful women who experience uncomfortable physical symptoms of anxiety often without understanding why. Physical anxiety can be debilitating. It can leave highly driven women stuck in procrastination or creep in during moments of rest, bringing guilt for sitting on the couch at the end of a long day. I know this experience personally. As a natural go-getter, I struggled with heart palpitations and a racing heart without realizing what was causing them. That’s why I’m passionate about helping clients understand how anxiety actually works in both the brain and the body. Anxiety isn’t a personal flaw, it’s a nervous system that’s stuck in the “on” position. Insight alone, however, isn’t what turns that switch off. Real change happens when we work with the brain and nervous system using small, simple, science-based strategies that help rewire their communication and allow anxious sensations to move through and out. I also teach values-based goal setting, so your actions are aligned with what truly matters to you, helping you feel fulfilled rather than constantly exhausted. My goal isn’t for you to slow down or do less, but to build a full, meaningful life where success doesn’t come at the cost of your well being.

My services include individual counseling for adults addressing concerns such as anxiety, depression, stress management, burnout, grief and loss, identity exploration, and adjustment to personal or professional change. I also support clients navigating complex systems such as education, workforce, or public institutions, helping them manage overwhelm, clarify goals, and strengthen coping strategies.