What is Postpartum Depression, and How to Cope With Symptoms

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Updated November 14th, 2025 by BetterHelp Editorial Team
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The months following welcoming a new child into the family can involve significant adjustment. A changing body, lack of quality sleep, and numerous other stressors lead some new parents to experience mental health problems such as postpartum depression (PPD) in the year following childbirth or adoption. Alongside troubling symptoms, postpartum depression can cause functional challenges such as difficulty managing stress. It can also indirectly affect the baby’s health in some cases. Screening for this condition is recommended as part of routine perinatal care and postpartum checkups. 

What is postpartum depression?

Postpartum depression is a serious mental health condition. However, misinformation and a pervasive stigma about postpartum depression's causes may cause some people to believe they are alone in their symptoms. Postpartum depression is a mental illness, not an indication of one's fitness as a parent. To reduce stigmas surrounding this condition, it can be essential to know how it develops, the symptoms to look out for, and ways to find support.  

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How many people experience postpartum depression?

Postpartum depression is a common mental illness, and the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) encourages those experiencing it to seek professional support due to its prevalence and severity. Studies estimate that as many as 20% of new parents experience postpartum depression, though the prevalence may be higher. Non-gestational parents can also experience PPD following the birth of a child. 

People with a history of depression are more susceptible to acquiring postpartum depression. However, regardless of mental health status or prior diagnosis, anyone can live with this condition. 

When does postpartum depression occur?

Postpartum depression symptoms can begin any time during a child's first year of life or after the adoption of a child. Some symptoms may occur around four or five months with the new family. Some new parents may struggle to find emotional support after nine months of pregnancy, labor, and welcoming a new human life. Others may go through an adoption process that can also cause symptoms of depression. 

What are the symptoms of depression found in postpartum depression?

Having a baby could be considered one of the most stressful experiences a person has during their lifetime. It can be normal for people who give birth to experience emotional symptoms, cognitive changes, and even mental health problems such as mild depression and anxiety during the first two weeks after childbirth due to hormonal shifts, stress, and other challenges associated with caring for a new child. This period of depressed mood is often known as the “baby blues”. The primary symptoms of depression during this time are an underlying sadness and lack of energy. However, this sadness immediately after birth is not necessarily a sign of PPD. 

Symptoms of postpartum depression are typically more severe and persistent than those of the baby blues. Postpartum depression is marked by sadness, trouble sleeping, loss of interest, and other depressive symptoms that persist beyond two weeks, with more functional difficulties.

What are postpartum depression or postnatal depression symptoms and its impact on mental health

Some people with postpartum depression may not experience sadness as a primary symptom, as the symptoms can be unique and varied. Common symptoms of postpartum depression include the following: 

  • Anger, rage, or irritability
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Restlessness 
  • Trouble concentrating 
  • A lack of pleasure in previously enjoyed activities 
  • A shift in appetite or behaviors around food
  • Apathy or a sense of having a "flat" mood 
  • Unexplained crying 
  • Thoughts of hopelessness or worthlessness 
  • Worrying, fear, or anxiety 
  • Intrusive thoughts of death or suicide
  • Thoughts of harming or not wanting new child  
  • A lack of connection or love toward your new child 
  • Trouble bonding with your new child 
  • Believing your new child isn't how you expected them to be 
  • Believing your child would be better off without you 

In some cases, parents may struggle to attend to their children when living with PPD, which could lead to a delay in language development within the first year. With treatment, this delay may be preventable. 

In more extreme cases of untreated postpartum depression, typically associated with postpartum psychosis, symptoms and side effects of mental health conditions can include:

  • Hallucinations
  • Paranoia
  • Thoughts of suicide or of harming the baby
  • Confusion and disorientation 

Understanding postpartum depression symptoms

Postpartum depression has symptoms similar to bipolar disorder, a mood disorder that can cause rapid mood swings. Get a proper diagnosis from your doctor if you are unsure what might be causing your symptoms. 

Note that some high-profile media stories highlight new parents experiencing postpartum psychosis, potentially giving the impression that if one does not experience extreme symptoms, they're not experiencing postpartum depression. However, postpartum depression symptoms occur on a spectrum, and someone may only experience a few of the symptoms that someone else experiences. If you're unsure if you're living with PPD, talking to a professional can be one of the most effective ways to be sure. 

Postpartum psychosis is rare in comparison with postpartum anxiety or postpartum depression. In addition, postpartum psychosis surfaces quickly after labor and birth. If you believe you may be living with psychosis, reach out to a professional as soon as possible, as psychosis can be severe and dangerous. 

How is postpartum depression diagnosed?

When a parent or caregiver seeks support with PPD, their healthcare professional may ask questions about the condition or request that they complete a depression screening questionnaire. Healthcare providers may want to know if parents have a history of depression or other mental illnesses. They might also ask if one has symptoms like extreme sadness, difficulty caring for the baby, or frightening thoughts. 

Be honest in your responses to your doctor's questions to get the most effective support and accurate diagnosis. Having PPD is not a flaw, and many support options are available for treatment. 

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What causes postpartum depression?

There isn't one single cause or predictor of postpartum depression. This condition is often caused by complex risk factors, including but not limited to the following. 

Hormones and postpartum depression

Individuals undergo profound physical changes during pregnancy, impacting their feelings. During and after pregnancy, fluctuations of hormones can cause profound chemical changes in a person's body. These changes can cause significant disruptions to someone's life and ability to control their thoughts.

More specifically, the hormones estrogen and progesterone are significantly elevated during pregnancy. Within 24 hours of childbirth, the hormone levels drop in the body, leading to a quick fluctuation in mood. These hormones may be a significant contributor to sadness after birth. However, if this sadness persists for over two weeks, it may be a sign of PPD. 

In addition to hormonal challenges, individuals may experience challenges with their thyroid gland after pregnancy. Postpartum thyroiditis is a condition where the thyroid gland becomes inflamed after birth, potentially impacting mood. 

Lifestyle factors that can impact postpartum depression

Various challenges of parenting a new baby or child exacerbate the hormonal effects of PPD. These changes may include the following: 

  • A lack of sleep
  • The added stress of parenting a newborn
  • Added challenges in the parental relationship
  • Intimate partner violence
  • A lack of perinatal care
  • Loss of flexibility and free time
  • Lack of a support system
  • Lack of time to exercise
  • Poor nutrition
  • Confusion about one's newfound role as a parent
  • Loss of sense of self
  • A desire or pressure to be the "perfect parent"
  • Unexpected challenges after birth 

Social factors that can contribute to postpartum depression

Teen parents and people living in poverty have higher rates of postpartum depression. The added stress experienced by these groups of people as they enter parenthood may exacerbate the other factors and lead to their increased risk of postpartum depression. To compound this situation, some teen parents who experience an unwanted pregnancy may lack the support of their own parents, a close loved one, or others in the family. A lack of support can further increase the risk of depression. 

Medical history and genetics in symptoms of depression

As with other depressive disorders, there is a genetic component to PPD. Those with a personal or family history of depression, postpartum depression, perinatal depression (depressive symptoms during pregnancy), or other mood disorders are at an elevated risk for this condition. Those who experience premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) before and during their regular menstrual cycles may also be at a higher risk. Other types of mental disorders, such as anxiety disorders and post-traumatic stress disorder, can be risk factors, as well. The stress of managing gestational diabetes can also increase the risk of postpartum depression. 

Fertility changes, trauma, and postpartum depression

Struggles with fertility and difficulty conceiving increase a person's likelihood of experiencing postpartum depression. In addition, a traumatic birth experience can lead to the formation of this condition. 

The Role of Postpartum Checkups and Ongoing Support

Early intervention for postpartum depression, including counseling interventions, can be crucial in ensuring positive outcomes. It could be important to attend regular postpartum checkups and tell your healthcare provider about any symptoms you're experiencing, including changes in mood or disturbing thoughts. Other ways to receive support is to ask for practical help from friends or family members. Having someone to help with the baby or household chores can help you manage stress and adjust to being a parent. You can also seek support from organizations in your local area or online, including Postpartum Support International. 

How Postpartum Depression Can Affect Mother and Baby 

Mental health problems such as postpartum depression may affect not only the mother, but also the baby. When a mom has trouble bonding with their newborn, it could affect the baby’s health and development. Mothers who are impacted by postpartum depression may also have difficulties breastfeeding, which can compound the lack of emotional connection between mom and baby in some cases. For example, breast milk may come in late or be in short supply. 

Paternal Postpartum Depression: When Fathers Struggle Too 

There may be a misconception that only mothers experience postpartum depression when in fact, fathers can also develop this condition. In these cases, the condition may be referred to as paternal postpartum depression. It could be more likely among men with a personal or family history of mental health problems. Still, having a baby is widely recognized as one of the most stressful life events a person can experience, and any new parent can develop postpartum depression or other issues with family adjustment. To safeguard your mental well-being, it could be important to seek emotional support, whether from a trusted friend or family member or mental health professional. 

Treatment options for postpartum depression 

Many treatments are available to combat postpartum depression; you don't have to go through treatment alone. If you believe you are struggling with symptoms of depression, speak with your doctor about your symptoms. Your primary care provider can ask more detailed questions to see if a diagnosis of postpartum depression makes sense for your case. They may also refer you to an expert in the condition to receive specialized mental health care who can provide individual therapy such as cognitive behavioural therapy. 

Some people can manage their postpartum depression with lifestyle adjustments, while others benefit from more comprehensive medical and counseling interventions to treat depression. Regardless, postpartum depression is often a chemical issue. It is not a personal failure if you struggle to improve your symptoms without medical support. PPD is temporary, so some parents take medication while coping with the symptoms. However, consult your doctor before starting, changing, or stopping any medication. 

You can also learn more about the causes, signs and symptoms, and treatment of postpartum depression through the Office of Women’s Health. The Mental Health Information section of the National Institute of Mental Health's website as well as Postpartum Support International also provides detailed information on this medical condition. Below are further support options for PPD. 

Support from family, local groups, and mental health professionals for postpartum depression

Be open about your struggles with postpartum depression with other parents in your social circle. Your family and friends may want to help, but it may be challenging to understand if they haven't had PPD. If you don't have friends who are parents, contact your birth hospital or obstetrician who provided your perinatal care and ask them about local parent and baby groups in the area. Such groups may allow you to socially connect and talk about your experience with people who understand. 

While you may not know how to talk about PPD with your family, try to prioritize time with them. It might not be possible to partake in activities you enjoyed before your new child. However, gathering with others in a social setting can improve mental and physical health, so find ways to connect that don't require too much energy or time. 

Online support groups or education videos can also help those living with stress and depression after adding a child to the family. You may be able to find an online support group for those seeking support. Online support groups can be a convenient and time-saving option for you and your partner and may be a starting point if you don't have groups in your area. 

If local groups are available, consider a support group specifically for those with PPD. These groups may help you learn more about postpartum depression and what it looks like in everyday life. In addition, you can connect with parents who have PPD and know what it feels like, even if their symptoms are different. Ask your local hospital, doctor, or obstetrician for help finding one in your local area to support your long-term recovery.

Managing Stress and Promoting Emotional Well-Being 

In addition to support networks, there are some self-care strategies and coping techniques you can use to manage stress and promote emotional well-being. If symptoms of postpartum depression or other mental health problems persist, it could be important to reach out for professional support. 

Lifestyle adjustments that can help manage postpartum depression

Physical and emotional challenges can take a toll on a new parent. However, there are a few steps you can take to combat symptoms at home, including but not limited to the following: 

  • Ask your partner to take an overnight feeding to help you get restorative sleep
  • Schedule regular exercise
  • Go on walks in the sun 
  • Pay attention to your nutrition
  • Avoid substance use 
  • Eat a piece of dark chocolate 
  • Do a puzzle 
  • Write in a journal 
  • Spend time in nature 
  • Create a scrapbook about your new baby or child
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Seeking mental health support for postnatal depression

In some cases, lifestyle adjustments may not be enough, and social support systems fall short. When this occurs, talking to a licensed therapist about your symptoms may be beneficial. Therapy and counseling interventions, including cognitive behavioural therapy, can be an effective way to manage PPD, and a therapist can accompany you throughout the duration of your condition. Professional care has been proven significantly effective in treating postpartum depression. It can also help you manage stress and improve emotional regulation as well as other mental health problems. 

If you struggle to find a professional in your area, you may also benefit from working with a provider on an online therapy platform like BetterHelp. A trained online counselor can help you identify the root causes of your emotions, offer guidance to process them effectively, and coach you on ways to improve specific aspects of your life impacted by PPD. Making time for self-care when you have a newborn can be challenging, so online therapy can break this barrier. You can schedule appointments when you know your infant may be sleeping, and you can attend from the comfort of your home. 

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In addition to its benefits, online therapy has been proven effective for PPD. In one study, researchers implemented online therapy workshops for 403 mothers with PPD during the COVID-19 pandemic. Results indicated that those who engaged in the session were four times more likely to experience a clinically meaningful improvement in PPD symptoms than those assigned to the control group. The workshops took place over videoconferencing and included activities like group exercises, roleplay scenarios, identifying and changing thought patterns, and learning strategies to improve mood and anxiety. 

Takeaway

You don't have to cope with postpartum depression (PPD) alone. There are many resources available, including the National Institute of Mental Health and Postpartum Support International. Postpartum depression is a common mental illness often caused by factors outside one's control. If you are struggling after the birth of a baby or your child's adoption, consider seeking support for your emotional and mental well-being. You can get started towards recovery by reaching out to an online or in-person therapist for further guidance.
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