Panic Attack: What To Do When It Happens

Medically reviewed by Paige Henry
Updated March 18, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team
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Panic attacks are a symptom of panic disorder and can occur quickly without warning, which may be scary for those who experience them. For many people, panic attacks can also be caused by an inciting event. Recognizing what incites panic attacks and employing panic-reducing strategies can often effectively control these symptoms. 

Sometimes, people experience difficulty identifying the inciting events that lead to their panic attacks. However, you can include a few strategies in your routine that may help you identify the cause. One of the most productive ways to control a panic attack may be stopping it before it happens, and there are a few tools and strategies geared explicitly toward doing so. 

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How do I know if I'm having a panic attack?

While panic attacks manifest in different ways from person to person, some common panic attack symptoms include the following: 

  • Rapid heartbeat
  • Sweating
  • Body or leg shaking
  • Difficulty catching your breath
  • Chest tightness 
  • Nausea 
  • Stomach aches 
  • A sense of danger around the corner 
  • Dizziness 
  • Headaches
  • Feeling "detached" from reality 
  • Struggling to move your body or take action 
  • Feeling the urge to run 
  • Feeling the urge to defend yourself  

While these symptoms can be uncomfortable and unsettling, panic attacks are not life-threatening. If you've experienced some of these symptoms, you may have had a panic attack. If you have panic disorder, you may feel worried about having more panic attacks, which could cause further episodes. However, there are ways to work around these attacks and find relief.  

What causes panic attacks? 

trigger is an event that causes an emotional reaction. The word "trigger" is associated with stimuli that remind individuals of traumatic events. When having a panic attack unrelated to trauma, you might refer to these events as "inciting events." A few common inciting events that might bring on panic attacks can include the following: 

  • Scents
  • Locations
  • Specific individuals
  • Tone of voice
  • Abandonment 
  • Fear of loss 
  • A reminder of a traumatic event, like a conversation, challenging therapy session, etc. 
  • Social situations
  • Crowded rooms
  • Phobias
  • Being alone 
  • Being pushed to do something you're not comfortable with 
  • Being touched

Often, people can identify individuals or situations that cause stress. However, sometimes people report that they have panic attacks without cause. If you cannot identify the cause of your panic attack, it might be helpful to retrace your steps to think about what you were doing, whom you were talking to, and what you were thinking about leading up to the attack. Try to think of these causes after the panic attack, as the attack might cause you to struggle to think clearly. 

A panic attack is a profound reaction to high stress and anxiety levels. Panic attacks may seem to come out of nowhere, but they may have a cause, including a cause from many days, weeks, or months ago. While it's not necessarily intentional, the buildup of tolerance to stressors can be a coping mechanism someone develops to sustain a relationship or job or to avoid addressing painful emotions.

Where there is tolerance, there is a chance that the individual will reach a point where they can no longer postpone the inevitable. When the stress or emotion catches up to them, they may have a panic attack.

How to cope with inciting events and triggers 

Inciting events may not always be able to be avoided. For example, you might know that seeing a particular person will upset you, so you do your best to try and avoid that person. However, they might pop up, or you may see a reminder of them online. As it can be challenging to plan for every scenario, you might constantly worry, which can increase anxiety. 

However, planning time more efficiently may circumvent specific causes of anxiety, such as heavy traffic, crowded rooms, or deadlines for school. If deadlines bring on feelings of panic, employ a proactive stance so that projects can be completed early. Many experts also suggest using tactics similar to those used in exposure and response prevention therapy (ERP) to cope with anxiety. 

The theory behind ERP is that avoiding your fears or performing compulsive behaviors can reinforce them by showing you that your fear controls you. However, by facing these fears, often alongside a compassionate therapist, you can start to see how these fears do not define you, offering a sense of confidence and resilience. 

How to know whether you are experiencing panic attacks related to trauma

Individuals who have been abused by someone from the family or romantic partner or who are survivors of violent crime or trauma may develop symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Events or individuals reminiscent of the traumatic event can bring on a panic attack. 

If you or a loved one is experiencing abuse, contact the Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Support is available 24/7.

If you are experiencing trauma, support is available. Please see our Get Help Now page for more resources.

Removing yourself from triggering situations may help you avoid panic attacks. However, if you want to know how to treat panic attacks, it can also be helpful to confront the source of your stress, such as going to therapy to heal from a traumatic event you experienced.

How to manage the onset of a panic attack 

When stressors and triggers go unacknowledged and unmanaged, panic attacks may seem sudden. If possible, separate from the source of anxiety. Move to an open area, preferably where fresh air is available. If a change of location is impossible, consider closing your eyes and using visualization techniques to mentally take yourself to your happy place. You might imagine a beach, a forest, or a calming spot from your childhood. 

Try taking deep breaths and acknowledging that you are having a panic attack. It could help to recite a mantra such as "I'm safe, and this will pass." As you continue to breathe, allow your body to relax and practice deep breathing techniques, which may eventually end the panic attack.

If you struggle to control your behavior during a panic attack or feel the urge to run away, freeze, or stop talking, try to sit or lay down comfortably where you feel safe. If you have someone you trust in your life, you might let them know what helps you during a panic attack before it happens. For example, if someone talking to you while you're panicking makes it worse, you might ask them to support you without words by hugging you, offering you tea, or sitting with you until it passes. 

Managing daily stress to prevent panic attacks 

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Managing daily stress through diet, exercise, and proper sleep can equip you to handle stressful events as they occur. Learning deep breathing techniques, working on challenging your anxiety by differentiating between emotional and rational thoughts, and engaging in meditation techniques can be helpful for people who have panic attacks.

Immediate coping mechanisms for panic attacks

Many people want to know how to stop a panic attack in its tracks immediately. If you are panicking, consider trying the following techniques for immediate relief. 

The TIPP skill from dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) 

Dialectical behavior therapy was developed by Marsha Linehan, Ph.D., to help individuals with profound emotional responses. One module of the DBT workbook is distress tolerance, which focuses on coping with extreme distress. The TIPP skill is one skill from this module, which is an acronym standing for the following: 

  • T: Temperature 
  • I: Intense Exercise 
  • P: Paced Breathing 
  • P:  Paired Muscle Relaxation 

To start, find a way to alter your temperature. Studies show that swimming in cold water stops panic attacks. If you can't swim, you can put your face in a sink of cold water, hold an ice cube, or take a cold shower. The temperature of a cold shower can reset your nervous system, potentially bringing you out of your panic. 

After changing your temperature, partake in a form of exercise. Swimming in cold water is one way you can combine both skills. However, you can also try running, taking a hike, running on a treadmill, or doing yoga. Exercising can increase endorphins in your brain, allowing you a mood boost. 

After you have finished the first two skills, sit or lay down in a comfortable location. Start pacing your breathing by counting on your in and out breaths. Depending on what works for you, you might count to five, eight, or ten. While breathing, you can practice paired muscle relaxation by thinking of relaxing each muscle as you breathe. Start with the muscles of your feet and move up to the top of your head, relaxing each part of your body. 

Sensory wellness skills

For many people, panic attacks occur due to sensory overload, which might be caused by loud noises, crowded rooms, or a disregard of your physical and sensory boundaries by others. When you're panicking, consider having a sensory wellness kit to use. This kit could include the following: 

  • Fidget toys
  • A stuffed animal 
  • A weighted blanket
  • A coloring book 
  • Kind letters from someone you love
  • A letter to yourself on how you've coped in the past
  • Soothing music 
  • An ice or heat pack to put on your body
  • A puzzle 
  • A book you love to read
  • Sensory-friendly clothing (like comfortable pajamas) 

You might also add a space in your house where you can go when you panic, such as a comfortable section of your closet, a reading nook, a window ledge, or your bed. Set up this area to offer a quiet, comfortable, and personalized sensory environment to help you cope after a panic attack. 

If you often have panic attacks in public, consider bringing your sensory kit with you in a backpack or purse. 

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Counseling options 

If you are struggling with panic attacks and don't find the above strategies beneficial, consider contacting a professional for support. A licensed therapist can gather a history of your symptoms and come up with an individualized plan for you to employ to address your anxiety and panic. If you are worried about meeting a therapist in person, you can also consider online therapy. 

Through an online therapy platform like BetterHelp, you can be matched with a therapist with experience treating anxiety and panic disorder. If you discover your therapist is not a match, you can switch therapists until you find a provider that meets your needs. In addition, online therapy can allow you to choose between phone, video, or chat sessions, which can be beneficial if you are worried about talking to someone face-to-face. 

An increasing number of studies have shown that internet-based cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can significantly reduce the number of panic attacks someone has, as well as symptoms of anxiety and depression. CBT is a therapeutic framework that teaches people to replace unhelpful thoughts with helpful and productive ideas and beliefs. 

Takeaway

Experiencing a panic attack can be frightening, including when you've never had one before or don't know how to cope with it. While there are many tools you can use to prevent and overcome your panic attacks, each person is different in what helps them. If you're struggling with the symptoms of a panic attack, reaching out to a therapist may help you move forward. A provider may equip you with new coping mechanisms and techniques to reduce the prevalence and severity of your symptoms.
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