How To Find Therapy For Your Child
Could my child benefit from therapy?
It’s sometimes hard to recognize mental health concerns in young children due to their unique challenges. For example, many children are energetic and have trouble focusing, but not all of them experience attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Still, some symptoms may be noticeable and could help you make the decision to seek the opinion of a mental health or medical professional. Below are the signs of a few mental health conditions that are common in children.
Signs of anxiety
According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA), over 30% of people between the ages of 13 and 18 live with an anxiety disorder. There are several types of anxiety disorders, including generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety disorder, phobias, and panic disorder.
Some signs that your child may have an anxiety disorder include:
- Nightmares
- Trouble falling or staying asleep
- Increased agitation or anger
- Chronic fatigue
- Shaking or trembling
- Avoidance of friends and family
- Lack of interest in favorite activities
- Trouble concentrating and remembering things
- Gastrointestinal problems
Signs of depression
Sadness is a normal emotion for children. However, if you find that your child is experiencing persistent sadness for no obvious reason, this may be a sign that they are living with depression. As with anxiety disorders, there are different types of depressive disorders, including major depressive disorder, persistent depressive disorder, and seasonal affective disorder.
Some of the signs of depression in children include:
- A tendency to avoid friends and family
- Extreme fatigue
- Loss of interest in favorite activities
- Trouble concentrating or making decisions
- Changes in appetite
- Weight loss or gain
- Acts of aggression or agitation for no obvious reason
- Sadness for longer than two weeks
- Talking about death or dying*
*If you or a loved one is experiencing suicidal thoughts, reach out for help immediately. The 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline can be reached at 988 and is available 24/7.
Signs of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder
Often characterized by trouble focusing, hyperactivity, and impulsivity, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is considered one of the most common mental health disorders in children and adolescents. According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), this common neurodevelopmental disorder affects approximately six million adolescents in the United States.
The following are some of the signs of ADHD:
- Hyperactivity or restless behavior
- Difficulty concentrating or paying attention
- Disruptive behavior
- Impulsivity
- Lack of attention to detail
- Difficulty listening or understanding instructions
- Poor organization or time management
- Trouble sitting still
- A tendency to interrupt conversations
- Impatience
The benefits of therapy for children
Life can be daunting for children. They are still learning about the world around them, managing challenges at school, and trying to manage their emotions. Child therapy can often help children cope with these challenges, navigate potential mental health concerns, and work through their feelings. Your child does not have to have a mental health condition to reap the benefits of therapy, though. The objectives of therapy could be as simple as giving your child an outlet for their emotions, teaching them new skills, helping them find their strengths in life, or building their confidence.
Finding a therapist for your child
If you’re ready to find a therapist, there are several options available. With the American Psychological Association’s (APA) psychologist locator, you can find a child therapist near you using your zip code or address. You can also utilize an online therapy service that will help match your child with a therapist who can address their specific concerns. You may also go through your child’s school or pediatrician to find a counselor.
Child therapists and treatment methods
Therapists who work with children may have a variety of titles, such as clinical social worker, mental health counselor, professional counselor, or psychologist.
Child therapists use a variety of treatment methods to work with different conditions. A therapist can develop a treatment plan that is likely to include one or more of the following options,often integrating
elements of play therapy which encourages child interaction in the therapy process:
- Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) often works for children because it teaches them how to replace their negative thoughts with positive ones and how to understand their behaviors and emotions.
- Social skills therapy may help children who are experiencing difficulty with communication or other social skills. This could include making friends, interacting with adults, making eye contact, or holding a conversation with someone.
- Trauma-focused therapy is often best for children who have been exposed to a traumatic situation, such as the death of a loved one, abuse, neglect, natural disasters, or a major accident.
- Grief counseling primarily involves healing after the loss of a loved one. Children often process loss differently than adults do, so they may need special support during this time.
- Family therapy often involves treating the entire family as a unit. This may be beneficial for those whose concerns involve the entire family, such as challenges related to a divorce.
- Group therapy can be helpful for children who are having trouble building social skills and self-esteem. It allows children to interact with others and lets them know that they are not the only ones feeling the way they do.
How you can help
In conjunction with therapy, there are things you can do to help enhance your child’s mental well-being.
- Get Involved. The support and love of a parent can be a valuable part of children’s success. Children often feel more confident and stable when they know they can count on the adults in their lives.
- Get Some Exercise. You might take a walk around the block together. You can use this time to talk about problems and brainstorm ways to overcome them. As a bonus, exercise releases endorphins in the brain, which may improve your child’s mood.
- Encourage Journaling. For many young people, journaling can be a healthy, productive outlet to express themselves.
Online therapy for child and parent
You can find available, comprehensive mental health care for you or your child through an online therapy platform like BetterHelp, or its service specifically for children aged 13-18 years old, TeenCounseling. With online therapy, you can chat with a mental health professional outside of traditional working hours, which makes it easy for busy parents to schedule appointments. Sessions can be conducted through audio or video chat, so you can participate in therapy from the comfort of your home. Read below for some reviews of BetterHelp therapists from parents experiencing similar concerns.
Therapist reviews
“Dr. Torres is amazing with the things she is doing with my 13 year old daughter. My daughter has recently been bullied which caused her to be angry… She would not go anywhere or do anything. When my daughter spoke with Dr. Torres for the first time, a few days later she picked up herself and started to go out and wanted to do things with me and by herself….I was completely amazed, everyone I spoke to was amazed. I’d also like to add that Dr. Torres is kind, patient, calm and very warm and friendly to me and my daughter. Every time I tell my daughter Dr. Torres is calling, a big smile comes on her face, it’s so wonderful to see that….Please keep up the excellent work.”
“I’ve been using BetterHelp for a while now and have really enjoyed working with Rachel. I’m a mom to a young child and having the ability to message her or schedule live sessions is a game changer. She is very kind and attentive to my feelings and concerns and gives me helpful insight. I have genuinely appreciated her support and benefited greatly from spending time working with her.”
Takeaway
interaction therapy. Also, if you’re looking for support as a parent, consider reaching out to a qualified mental health professional online. With the right help, you and your child can continue on a path to improved mental well-being. Take the first step and reach out to BetterHelp today.
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