Benefits Of Premarital Counseling Online

More couples are partaking in premarital counseling online to help strengthen their relationship and prepare for a healthy marriage. Could you and your partner benefit from online premarital counseling?

So, you found the perfect partner and now you are ready to get married. Or, are you? Have you thought about premarital counseling? Everyone has heard it before. The age-old adage "marriage is hard work," or the telling, but perhaps not quite accurate, statistic "over 50% of marriages end in divorce." If you and your significant other want to make sure you are doing everything in your power to create a foundation for a strong, stable, and fulfilling marriage, then online premarital counseling or online relationship counseling may be right for you. At the very least, it will help you two get to know each other better. You want to know as much as you can about the person you are planning to spend the rest of your life with, right?

What Is Premarital Counseling?

Essentially, premarital counseling is counseling with the goal of improving communication between you and your partner and making it more effective, especially when discussing topics that you may tend to avoid or that could lead to conflict. If you decide to partake in premarital counseling online services with a licensed therapist, you can expect to experience benefits, including:

• Improved communication - particularly during times of stress or anger
• Healthy discussion to work through issues that could potentially cause marital stress in the future or even lead to separation
• A safe way to express thoughts and opinions without judgment
• The opportunity to set goals and aspirations for your marriage that will help you set the foundation for your future together
• Discovering new things about each other

What premarital counseling or couples counseling with a licensed therapist open up is an opportunity to get everything out in the open so that, when you enter into marriage, there is less chance of conflict or marital stress. And the best part is, there are a wide variety of licensed therapists and online premarital counseling areas of focus that you and your partner can partake in on your own time and in the privacy of your own home. A premarital counselor is a neutral party that can provide a safe environment in which to discuss potentially difficult conversations. They are professionally trained to assist in guiding the conversation and navigating the discussion, without offering direct advice or interjecting solutions. Rather, they assist you and your partner in coming to agreements or reaching compromises on your own, or can gently offer perspective if a stalemate arises on certain topics/issues that may have surfaced.

What Does Online Premarital Counseling Involve?

Some of the topics and issues typically discussed in premarital counseling include:

• Dealing with anger issues
• Making decisions together
• Spending time together and individually
• Desire to have children
• Pets
• A thorough assessment of your relationship and potential problem areas
• Parenting together successfully
• Spirituality and/or religion
• Relationships with other family members
• Intimacy/sexual relationship and showing affection
• Values, morals, and potential deal breakers (e.g., infidelity, violence, etc.)
• Role clarity within the marriage
• Household responsibilities
• Communicating effectively
• Overcoming past issues
• Work and finances

Do We Really Need Premarital Counseling?

It may be difficult to discuss the idea of premarital counseling or couples therapy when things are going well, but putting in the effort to ensure you have the tools you need beforehand will get you off to great start. Think of a time when you have assembled a piece of furniture. Did you just jump right in and start putting the pieces together in a haphazard way with whatever was within reach? I doubt it. More often than not, people read through the instructions and assemble all the tools they need ahead of time to ensure success and avoid frustration. While there is no instruction manual available for entering into a marriage, licensed therapists can help empower couples with good communication habits and healthy ways to address disagreements when they do occur. They will have the experience to know which topics among married couples commonly cause discord and pitfalls to avoid. Also, it is impossible to know everything about anyone − partner included. Premarital counseling allows both partners to explore and learn more about the person they have chosen to build a life with.

The counselor, therapist, or relationship coach can give you the conflict resolution skills that will help you turn those unfortunate disagreements into resolutions. One peer reviewed study showed that distressed couples engaged in significantly more negative cognitive and problem-solving acts, and more negative reciprocity in communications was evident, when compared to non-distressed couples. This makes a good case for being proactive and discussing such things in a state of non-distress. Then, if and when the time comes, you’ll both be well equipped and knowledgeable in the area of conflict management.

An evaluation of the effectiveness of a premarital relationship counseling service showed that the average person who participated in a premarital program was significantly better off afterwards than 79% of non-participants. In other words, participants experienced about a 30% increase in measures of outcome success. These findings suggest that premarital programs are generally effective in producing immediate and short‐term gains in interpersonal skills and overall relationship quality and that these improvements are significantly better than nonintervention couples in these areas.

How Much Does Premarital Counseling Cost?

The cost of online premarital counseling is much cheaper than traditional face-to-face premarital counseling or couples therapy. One reason is because the therapist does not have to pay for an office to work out of, staff for that office, utilities and other expenses for the office. The therapist or counselor also does not have to spend money on gas and other travel expenses when they do online premarital counseling. Therefore, they save money and pass that savings on to you. The cost of traditional premarital counseling sessions average about $150 to $300 per hour, depending on the location. Online premarital counseling or online therapy averages about $50 to $75 per session. This is a drop in the bucket compared to the financial, emotional, and mental costs of divorce. Investing this small amount in your marriage before it starts can help build a strong foundation and equip you with the skills necessary to keep that word out of your vocabulary and in the dictionary where it belongs.

How to Find Online Premarital Counseling

A simple online search for "best online premarital counseling” or “couples counseling” can help you get started. However, not all online premarital counseling resources are created equal. Take your time to find one that provides good structure and guidance coming from a reputable source. Many sites encourage clients to leave reviews, and reading through those can give you a great idea if you have found a dependable site.

There are many different online therapy resources to choose from so you should really do your homework before choosing. An online resource such as BetterHelp.com is a great place to start your search. You will be able to tell a bit about yourself and what you would like to get out of premarital counseling. In addition, you will be matched with a licensed counselor, therapist, or relationship coach who can provide guidance, support, and knowledge to help you and your partner prepare for marriage - all strictly confidential and online.

Marriage will be one of the most rewarding - and sometimes the most challenging - experiences of your life. So, do not take yours and your partner's relationship for granted. Instead, consider partaking in relationship therapy services or premarital counseling online to do what you can to make sure your marriage has a strong and stable foundation on which to grow, for many years to come.

Why Choose Online Rather Than Traditional Counseling?

With online premarital counseling or any kind of online therapy, for that matter, you will receive all the benefits of traditional counseling with added flexibility. You can choose to make an online appointment that is convenient for you by video, phone, or online chat. Your commute time will be zero and you and your partner can connect to a mental health expert from our network of over 25,000 licensed therapists from the comfort of your own home. It can also be a more affordable option for reasons mentioned earlier in this article. There are studies that suggest that couples who engage in premarital counseling or couples therapy before marriage can reduce their likelihood of divorce. What better reason to connect with one of our licensed mental health professionals today?

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