As a licensed therapist in Oklahoma, I specialize in supporting individuals navigating complex life challenges with compassion and expertise. My practice focuses on creating affirming, inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals, older adults, and those experiencing stress, anxiety, and relationship dynamics. I bring deep understanding to issues surrounding self-love, communication challenges, social anxiety, and personal growth. My approach centers on helping clients explore their unique experiences, develop meaningful coping strategies, and cultivate greater emotional resilience. With extensive experience supporting diverse populations, I'm committed to addressing a wide range of concerns—from workplace stress and life transitions to identity exploration and interpersonal relationships. I believe in meeting each person exactly where they are, offering non-judgmental guidance that honors individual strengths and experiences. My therapeutic style emphasizes collaboration, empowerment, and personalized support. I'm dedicated to walking alongside clients as they navigate their most challenging moments and discover pathways toward healing and self-understanding.

Work with me! Welcome to Betterhelp. My name is Ajibola Harris. Just refer to me as "ABBY". I am a Licensed Professional Counselor licensed in Oklahoma, Texas, and Nevada with over of 15 years of fulfilled working experience. I graduated from the University of Oklahoma in 2007 and obtained a Master of Human Relations degree (MHR). In 2010, I obtained my first license to practice as a Licensed Professional counselor (LPC) in Oklahoma and started my career that same year. Over the course of my career, I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including relationship issues, depression, anxiety, unresolved trauma, unresolved grief, and stress. My therapeutic approach combines cognitive behavioral, client-centered, humanistic, trauma-focused and solution-focused therapy. I will tailor our dialogue and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. A great therapeutic relationship established at the onset of meeting the client is vital to bring about the change expected, which is why finding a therapist that the client feels comfortable with is half the battle. I AM THAT THERAPIST. So, I strive to establish a great therapeutic relationship with clients that fosters a strong rapport, trust, unconditional positive regard, respect, dignity and compassion. As a non-judgmental and open-minded listener, I approach the therapeutic relationship with acute sensitivity to multi/cross-cultural factors. I constantly remind myself that the basic core of therapy is about helping people get unstuck from recurring and distruptive emotional thoughts. When this is achieved, clients appreciate the importance of therapy. Above all, I love helping people and doing so gives me the great joy to keep impacting lives. SPECIALITIES: Relationship issues, Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Anger management, , LGBTQ+ issues, Addictions, Mood disorders, Unresolved grief issues, Self-esteem, Trauma and abuse, Codependency, PTSD, ADHD, Women ssues, Clinical Approaches: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Client-Centered Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Humanistic. I am honored to have the opportunity to work with you.

The human spirit is more powerful than any drug, and it is that we need to nurture. Lives get off track for many reason, but they can get back on track. I am honored to help. For the last 30 years, I was employed by the Federal Bureau of Prisons. Since 1998, I served as a Drug Treatment Specialist, working with adult male offenders with substance use disorders. The previous 7 years, I was employed in Human Resources and unit management. I left that job due to mandatory retirement. I loved the work because I found it meaningful. Even though the primary focus was a cognitive-behavioral approach to addiction, I counseled our clients regarding grief and loss and relationship issues of all kinds. I enjoyed working with people who had forgotten their own potential and watching them grow and take control of the rest of their lives. EDUCATION Master of Arts in Personnel and Organizational Psychology in 1992, from the University of Central Oklahoma (formerly Central State University) in Edmond, Oklahoma. Bachelor of Business Administration in 1988, from Central State University, Edmond, Oklahoma.

I bring over 14 years of experience in providing therapeutic services and counseling in diverse and challenging environments. My specialization lies in supporting individuals and families impacted by addiction, intimate partner violence, and the criminal justice system, including pre and post incarceration. My approach is holistic, client-centered, and trauma-informed, with a strong focus on empowering clients to make meaningful, lasting changes in their lives. My therapeutic approach emphasizes empathy, respect, and collaboration. Discussing and incorporating your faith is always welcomed. Extensive experience working with individuals within the criminal justice system, offering pre- and post-incarceration counseling and addressing the emotional and social challenges of reentry. Compassionate guidance for families impacted by a loved one’s incarceration, offering coping strategies and support in navigating the prison system, probation/parole, court programs, as well as emotional and logistical challenges of separation. Skilled with individuals with substance use disorders, using evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), and harm reduction strategies. Expertise in supporting survivors of IPV, including trauma-informed counseling, safety planning, and crisis intervention. Experienced in working with both survivors and perpetrators of violence to break cycles of abuse and promote healthy relationships. Working with parents facing challenges in raising their children, especially those affected by substance abuse, trauma, foster care, or involvement with the criminal justice system.

Sheila Hodge-Windover, has been helping people with intimate and interpersonal relationships for many years. She helps people with all types of relationships, from pre-marital sweethearts, married couples, pre and post divorce, extended family, sibling conflict, addicted relationships, domestic violence, workplace conflict, organizations with large multi-party conflicts, and all types of intimate and interpersonal relationships. As a Prominent relationship therapist she is currently serving as the Clinical Director and counselor at the Mind, Heart and Soul Counseling where she works with a broad spectrum of clients. Her therapeutic approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. She integrates complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalised approach tailored to each client with compassion and understanding. She works with each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. She believes in helping her clients realise their full potential. Hodge-Windover completed a Ph.D, in Health Psychology/Behavioral Medicine from Northcentral University. She is also a graduate of Cameron University where she obtained a MS degree in Behavioral Science and a BS degree in Psychology. Before migrating to the US, she was the founder and Scholastic Director of the Mind Builder Early Group and Probation Officer/Child Protection Officer for the Government of the beautiful Caribbean Island of St Kitts and Nevis. Some of her many accomplishments included Winning the Caribbean Youth Of the Year Award (1990), St Kitts and Nevis National Youth Award, 1992, authoring 4 booklets, writing, directing, and performing in various plays.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Oklahoma. I have provided therapy for a diverse population of clients over the past nine years. I worked within the court system for three years where I was able to aid people in their recovery process while dealing with life changes and any mental health issues. The last five years I have worked with families to provide a better quality of life in spite of mental health or disparaging circumstances. I have experience with depression, stress, anxiety, anger management, self-esteem, addiction and trauma. I pride myself on being judgement free and providing an atmosphere which is open and safe. My therapeutic approach is conversational, solution-focused and holistic. We will focus on behaviors which are counter productive to desired results and I will aid the you in finding prosocial activities which can promote healthier habits leading to a better life. I will allow you to be the expert of your life while providing support and helping to maintain focus on the goals we determine you would like to meet during the therapeutic relationship. I look forward to being a part of your journey to becoming your best self!!!

As a licensed professional counselor, I believe in meeting clients on a level playing field as each client has a unique and personal understanding of themselves and is an expert in their own lives. I look to my clients to educate me on what is important to them and how we might best work together to reach a positive outcome. My fundamental belief is that most people are doing the best they can at any given point in their life and there are straight forward reasons for doing what they choose to do. I don’t get bogged down in talking about good or bad, right or wrong, or he said she said but rather what are more effective choices in creating a life worth living. I am extensively trained in both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). CBT is the number one therapeutic modality in the world bar none and was developed by Dr. Aaron Beck. I had the good fortune to receive 160 hours of advanced training by the Beck Institute. I also am certified (C-DBT) in Dialectical Behavior Therapy developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan where the focus is on making decisions about what will work effectively for you and what is not effectively. Information on both CBT and DBT are available online to help you make an informed decision on how best to move forward in your goals and in your life.

For over 20 years I have been providing counseling services to the residents of Oklahoma. I received my bachelors degree in psychology from the University of Tulsa, went on to receive my Masters degree from Northeastern State University and then received my license as a Licensed Professional Counselor. My practice consists of counseling clients, supervising new counselors for their licensure and consulting with other counselors about their practice. Over the years I have employed a variety of therapeutic interventions for my clients ranging from Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) and Solution Focused Therapy. We all experience times in our life when we are unable to do those things that we want to, and our lives may become unmanageable and unfulfilling. These times may provoke feelings of anxiety and depression and may lead to substance use or other maladaptive and self-destructive behaviors and relationships. These emotions, behaviors and relationships can often overwhelm us and we experience a feeling of being stuck in our current situation with no way out. These difficult emotions may have been a part of us for so long that we do not realize there is a different way of living. If you are struggling with emotions, relationships, substance use or you find yourself repeating the same patterns, I would like the opportunity to work with you. After hearing from you about what you would like to change in your life, what you value and the strengths you will bring to therapy, I will work with you to determine the most effective plan to help you realize the life you desire.

As a licensed therapist in Oklahoma, I specialize in supporting individuals navigating complex emotional landscapes. My professional approach centers on helping clients develop resilience, self-understanding, and meaningful personal growth. I have extensive experience addressing challenges like depression, anxiety, stress management, and self-esteem issues. My therapeutic practice focuses on creating a compassionate, collaborative environment where individuals can explore their experiences and develop healthier coping strategies. I'm particularly passionate about supporting individuals through interpersonal challenges, social anxiety, attachment concerns, and personal transformation journeys. I believe in empowering clients to reconnect with their inner strengths, overcome isolation, and rediscover their sense of purpose. Through a personalized, trauma-informed approach, I help individuals build communication skills, process difficult emotions, and cultivate self-compassion. My goal is to walk alongside you as you create positive, sustainable changes in your life.

I am licensed in Oklahoma with 14 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, family conflicts, parenting issues, & motivation, self esteem, and confidence. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!

I am licensed in Oklahoma with 15 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, relationship issues, & trauma and abuse. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.

I am licensed in Oklahoma and South Dakota with 23 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, trauma, abuse, motivation, self esteem, confidence, & depression. I also have experience working with coping with life changes. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

I am licensed in Oklahoma(therefore I can only work with folks residing in Oklahoma) with over 15 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting issues, motivation, self esteem, & confidence. I also have experience working with depression. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!

As a licensed therapist in Oklahoma, I specialize in supporting individuals navigating complex emotional landscapes. My approach centers on creating a compassionate, client-informed therapeutic environment where clients can explore their challenges and personal growth. I have extensive experience addressing a wide range of mental health concerns, including depression, anxiety, trauma, self-esteem issues, and relationship dynamics. My practice is deeply committed to understanding each client's unique journey. I offer specialized support for young adults, women, men, and individuals experiencing life transitions, workplace stress, and interpersonal challenges. Drawing from evidence-based practices, I help clients develop meaningful coping strategies, rebuild self-confidence, and cultivate healthier patterns of thinking and relating. I provide a supportive space that respects individual spiritual beliefs while focusing on holistic healing and personal empowerment. My goal is to walk alongside you, offering compassionate guidance as you work towards greater emotional well-being and personal transformation.