Therapists in Mill Neck, NY

I have dedicated twenty years of my professional life to the pursuit of a thorough and complete knowledge of human behavior. My intention is to understand people who want to change, experience satisfaction, serenity and the achievement of personal growth. As a Clinical Social Worker I try to cover every possible scenario one could imagine. Looking at multiple dimensions of you as a person, your environment and timeline, as well as how affected you have been during your experience of the different life stages. Supporting the process to find or reach your own personal goals. I use a bio-psycho-social-spiritual assessment to help determine the areas in your life you need or want support. My approach to therapy is client centered, utilizing cognitive behavioral therapy and motivational interviewing when appropriate. Most of my practice has focused on issues with trauma, anxiety, life transitions, and addictions. I am aware of the technological transformation that has occurred in the way we live and communicate. Therefore, I have embraced online therapy as a way of providing relief and healing through therapy, counseling, coaching and support. More importantly, my goal is to have a successful therapeutic relationship with you, based on a deep understanding of your needs.

By way of introduction, I am John Shafer, LCSW-R. In 1998, I graduated from Syracuse University's School of Social Work with my master's in social work. Throughout my social work career, I strived to learn from the highest credentialed and experienced professionals. Background wise, I have experience working with people in the following areas: rural community mental health settings, school-based mental health settings, city and suburban settings. Vocationally, diversification of approaches to working with people from an array of different environments provided my basis for success. I worked with people across the spectrum of age ranges from three years old to people in their nineties. Also, I gained experience working with people from different socio-economic statuses. Over the years, my ongoing diversity training afforded me opportunities to hone my clinical skills related to populations covering a wide gamut of racial and ethnic backgrounds. I sought to develop techniques to address gender identity expressions that was done in a culturally sensitive manner. Along the way, I prided myself on developing counseling and psycho-therapy skills. In the course of working with people, the therapy models I used most often included: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, Narrative Therapy, Strengths Based Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy. In general, my employment opportunities accorded me the chance to develop clinical skills. I implemented different types of therapy such as individual therapy, couple's therapy and group therapy; all of which provided me with professional development opportunities. Interweaving professional experiences with evidence based therapy models, I work collaboratively with people to attain client-centered and person-centered goals.

Life's hardships sometimes deplete our emotions. Loss, trauma, anxiety, depression, and confusion consume our inner resources, and we might need help from a "neutral" person to detect what's going on and help us restore our inner peace, so we should be capable of having passion and delight in work, relationships and feel good about ourselves. I'm a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the States of New York and New Jersey and a trained Psychoanalyst. In psychoanalytic therapy, you'll gain mastery over your emotional world and feel empowered to deal with life's circumstances.

I am an individual and couples therapist licensed in New York, with over 20 years of clinical experience. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns, including depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I have also helped clients with a wide range of concerns, including depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I have also helped those who have experienced trauma and emotional abuse. I am considered to be warm and compassionate, and my style is working interactively with clients. My approach combines humanistic, psychodynamic and goal-oriented therapy with a wide range of client issues, and a diverse client base. I have worked with chronic mental illness, including anxiety, depression, personality and eating disorders. In addition to self-esteem issues, life transitions and chronic illness. My goal is to establish a meaningful alliance, and collaborate wih you to develop better coping skills and more satisfying relaionships. I look forward to working with you!

I am licensed in New York with 20 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with relationship issues, trauma, abuse, intimacy related issues, motivation, self esteem, & confidence. I also have experience working with depression. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in the State of New York and hold a Masters Degree in Social Work from Stony Brook University. In addition to general counseling, I have worked in substance abuse and mental health counseling for over six years. As a therapist, I prioritize creating a warm and welcoming environment for clients to feel comfortable in the therapeutic process, whatever that looks like for them. I don’t shy away from working outside the box and find creativity to be an asset in meeting clients where they’re at. I am dedicated in helping my clients challenge the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that are keeping them from living the life they want to live, while also accepting that which is out of their control. I utilize an eclectic array of therapeutic approaches, including but not limited to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Family Systems Therapy, and Holistic Therapy. I believe that some of the most successful work in therapy is done when we’re able to pull on tools and techniques from various approaches to create a truly individualized treatment plan. I aim to create a safe space for folks to talk about hard things, so they always know they have somewhere to bring the heaviness that they might carry. I believe that there is nothing more profound than making the decision to show up and put in the work, but I also believe that none of us can do it alone. I hope to be a part of the village that it takes.

I am licensed in New York with 18 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, motivation, self esteem, and confidence, & coping with life changes. I believe that you are the narrator of your story and that your body, mind and soul have the ability to shift, change and heal trauma. Our work together will help you learn how to use your body and mind's energy system to better manage your life. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy does take courage. I am here to guide you towards a direction of clarity and hope as we start this process together.

I am licensed in New York with 4 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, motivation, self esteem, and confidence, & depression. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

Life often asks us to juggle more than feels manageable. I help clients prioritize self-care and work through the mental health challenges, work pressures, relationship strains, and everyday stressors that get in the way of living the life they want. I approach therapy as a collaborative partnership. Meaningful change happens when therapist and client work together toward goals that matter to you—which is why my practice is grounded in a strength-based perspective. You bring insight into your own life; I bring tools, perspective, and a space where you can express your thoughts and emotions freely. Having a voice in your therapeutic journey isn't optional—it's central. Clients deserve a therapist who listens fully, stays curious, and remains committed to their growth. I strive to be that presence, session after session. If this resonates, I'd welcome a brief consultation to see if we're a good fit.

I am licensed in New York with 40 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, coping with grief, coping with loss, motivation, self esteem, confidence, & depression. I also have experience working with coping with life changes. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

I am licensed in New York with 23 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, coping with grief, coping with loss, motivation, self esteem, confidence, & career difficulties. I also have experience working with coping with life changes. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.

I provide compassionate, individualized therapy for children, teens, and adults, helping clients navigate behavioral challenges, developmental disabilities, and emotional difficulties. My work focuses on supporting individuals with anxiety, depression, and complex personality concerns, including borderline personality traits. I have specialized training in evidence-based approaches tailored to meet the unique needs of each client. This includes strategies for emotion regulation, coping skills development, and behavioral interventions designed to improve daily functioning and relationships. My experience encompasses working with a diverse population, including clients with developmental disabilities, behavioral disorders, and mood or personality challenges. My goal is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes in their lives. I collaborate closely with families, caregivers, and support systems when appropriate, ensuring a holistic approach to mental health and personal growth. Ofrezco terapia compasiva e individualizada para niños, adolescentes y adultos, apoyando a los clientes en el manejo de desafíos conductuales, discapacidades del desarrollo y dificultades emocionales. Mi práctica se centra en ayudar a las personas a manejar la ansiedad, la depresión y preocupaciones complejas de personalidad, incluyendo rasgos de personalidad límite. Con formación especializada en enfoques basados en la evidencia, adapto la terapia a las necesidades únicas de cada cliente. Mi trabajo incluye enseñar regulación emocional, desarrollar habilidades de afrontamiento e implementar estrategias conductuales que mejoren el funcionamiento diario y fortalezcan las relaciones. Tengo experiencia trabajando con una población diversa, incluyendo personas con discapacidades del desarrollo, trastornos de conducta y desafíos emocionales o de personalidad. Mi objetivo es crear un espacio seguro y sin juicios, donde los clientes se sientan escuchados, comprendidos y empoderados para lograr cambios significativos en sus vidas. Colaboro estrechamente con familias, cuidadores y sistemas de apoyo cuando es apropiado, asegurando un enfoque integral y de acompañamiento en la salud mental y el crecimiento personal.

In our work together, we’ll take time to understand the challenges you’re facing—whether it’s anxiety that keeps you on edge, depression that feels heavy and persistent, or the lingering impact of trauma. Rather than rushing to “fix” things, we’ll move at a pace that feels safe, focusing on gently shifting patterns and beliefs that may have once helped you cope but no longer serve the life you’re trying to build. You can expect a supportive space where compassion and honesty go hand in hand, and where you’re encouraged to show up exactly as you are. I bring curiosity, insight, and a touch of humor into our sessions, helping create a human, relatable environment that makes room for vulnerability, self-discovery, and meaningful, lasting change. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over a decade of experience in mental healthcare and crisis work, helping people work through some of their toughest times. My approach is collaborative and strengths-based, grounded in the belief that you already carry the inner resources needed for healing. Together, we’ll explore what’s happening in your present—your thoughts, emotions, relationships, and patterns—while also gently weaving in parts of your past when it feels helpful and relevant. I aim to honor the fullness of your story: its depth, its complexity, and the resilience that runs through it. Therapy with me is active and engaging; sometimes reflective and inward-looking, other times practical and goal-oriented. The process is dynamic, evolving as your needs, insights, and confidence grow. Throughout our work, my intention is to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can feel grounded and connected. I value authenticity and will show up as a real person in the room with you—steady, warm, and committed to your growth. Together, we’ll build a relationship that supports you in making meaningful shifts, cultivating self-understanding, and creating a life that feels more aligned with who you truly are.

As a licensed therapist in New York, I specialize in supporting individuals navigating complex emotional landscapes. My practice centers on empowering clients through challenges like anxiety, depression, trauma, and self-esteem issues. I bring a compassionate, culturally-informed approach to addressing workplace stress, relationship dynamics, and personal growth. My therapeutic work focuses on helping clients develop deeper self-understanding, improve communication skills, and overcome patterns of isolation and self-doubt. I'm particularly committed to supporting mental health and creating a safe, affirming space for exploring personal identity, relationships, and life transitions. Drawing from evidence-based practices, I collaborate with clients to develop personalized strategies for healing, resilience, and meaningful change. Whether you're struggling with social anxiety, processing past trauma, or seeking greater self-acceptance, I'm dedicated to walking alongside you with empathy and professional expertise.