Valerie Keller Gates
I am a licensed professional counselor in Oklahoma. I received a Bachelor of Science from Southern Nazarene University in Family Studies and Gerontology and a Masters of Human Relations with the emphasis of Licensed Professional Counseling from The University of Oklahoma. I have experience with adults, families, and groups. I have worked with those struggling with mild to severe mental illness as well as those individuals who are struggling with issues including depression, grief & loss, abuse/neglect, addictions with dual diagnosis, behavioral problems, bipolar, and parenting problems. I adapt my counseling style to each individual. However, within my experience, I have noticed that clients are more adaptable to me utilizing a counseling style of a client-focused approach. I believe that it is important to meet the client where they currently are in their journey of life and work from that point. I am a very transparent-honest-caring individual in my day to day life and I bring that trait to each session with the belief that in doing so, the client feels more at ease with being honest as issues and challenges are being processed. I believe everyone deserves respect and compassion as well as the opportunity to have added support when needed. My approach/style combines cognitive-behavioral and client-centered….just to name a few. A client’s treatment plan and the direction of the sessions will be tailored to meet the individual needs. "Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come".
Brenda Jagger
I am licensed in Oklahoma with 16 years of professional work experience. My roles as wife, mother, grandmother, school teacher, and school counselor have given me experience in helping clients with relationship issues, intimacy related issues, parenting issues, & coping with life changes. I also have experience working with compassion fatigue. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
Kevin West
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I graduated from the University of Colorado in Denver in 1995 with a master’s degree in counseling psychology/counseling education. Since then, I have amassed over 30 years of experience seeing clients in a variety of settings. I have worked with high school students on their personal and professional development. At universities, I led workshops for non-traditional (older) students. I have developed teambuilding workshops for companies and provided career counseling for individuals. I have been invited to present personality type workshops to various community groups. I have worked for agencies and in private practice. More recently, I have worked with client’s in their homes, addressing the gamut of personal issues a person can face: depression, anxiety, grief/loss, anger issues, premarital/marital issues, suicide, addictions in the family, low self-esteem, family of origin issues, and others. I am currently licensed in the state of Oklahoma Early in my education, I was encouraged to develop my own style of counseling, and that is what I have done. I have many different theoretical techniques in my “counseling toolbox”: cognitive/thought oriented, behavioral oriented, past/present/and future oriented. I steer clear of typical “psychobabble,” but I am fond of a good analogy. I like to use humor, and I believe that we all can laugh at ourselves if we feel secure enough. Knowing that we are loved in spite of (or maybe even because of) our flaws can be quite encouraging. I will accept you, and your issues, because I know I have my share. In fact, I was once told that the difference between a therapist and a client is that a therapist is further along in sorting out their issues. The counseling setting for me can be similar to the old joke where a man loses his wallet on a dark street. Another man sees the first one searching around under a streetlight and asks if he can be of assistance. The first man explains that he has lost his wallet and would welcome any assistance. The two men comb the area thoroughly, looking everywhere to no avail. Finally the second man says to the first, “Are you sure you lost it here?” To which the first man replies, “No, I lost it down in that dark alley.” The second man says, “Well, Why are we looking here?!” The first man says, “Because the light is better here.” A good therapist can be a flashlight - helping you explore the darker areas of your life. But, don’t worry, we won’t go until you are ready. I look forward to searching with you.
Kim Stanford
I am licensed in Oklahoma with 10 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, trauma, abuse, anger management, motivation, self esteem, & confidence. I also have experience working with depression. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
Daniel Ulberg
My name is Dan Ulberg, and I'm a licensed therapist in Oklahoma. You can take a look at my profile to learn a little bit more about my background and approach. Please also feel free to ask questions. I am licensed in Oklahoma with 13 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, & depression. Online counseling is fairly new, and I've found it to be really effective for many issues. My counseling style is pretty laid back. I have been described as supportive, caring, and compassionate, with a pretty good sense of humor. I like to focus on identifying your strengths and helping you to maximize them to overcome your obstacles. I'm here to help you sort through the things that are difficult right now, and offer you a safe place to be open and honest without fear of judgment. You have taken the first and most important step by reaching out for help. I'm sorry you are having a tough time right now, but I'm really glad you are reaching out. I'd like to help you work on the struggles you are facing; and offer you a safe place to explore your thoughts and feelings.
Kari Dry
I am licensed in Oklahoma with 14 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, coping with addictions, relationship issues, & trauma and abuse. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
Sharon Adeyiga
As a licensed therapist in Oklahoma, I specialize in supporting individuals navigating complex life transitions, relationship challenges, and personal growth. My approach centers on helping clients develop resilience, self-understanding, and meaningful strategies for emotional well-being. I have extensive experience addressing stress, anxiety, relationship dynamics, and self-esteem concerns. My therapeutic practice focuses on creating a compassionate, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their experiences, heal from past challenges, and cultivate stronger interpersonal connections. My work is particularly attuned to supporting individuals through significant life changes, family conflicts, and personal transformation. I offer tailored guidance for those experiencing isolation, seeking life purpose, or working through feelings of guilt, shame, and abandonment. I welcome clients from diverse backgrounds and belief systems, committed to providing affirming, personalized support that honors each individual's unique journey. My goal is to empower you to develop deeper self-love, improve communication, and create more fulfilling life experiences.
Laura Chilson
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma with 4 years of professional work experience as a therapist. Prior to becoming a therapist, I worked in mental health settings as a social services specialist, life coach, and in education as a school counselor. Because I desired to promote lasting change and greater impact, I pursued my therapy license, which required a Master's Degree in Professional Counseling, successful completion of the National Counselor Exam, and 3000 clock hours of supervised experience. I have experience in helping clients and families with stress, anxiety, trauma, abuse recovery, relationship and parenting issues, depression, and coping with life changes. Working with BetterHelp has also given me opportunity to help with addiction recovery and maintenance. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and goals to meet your unique and specific needs. Taking steps to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life requires courage. I am here to support you in your journey.
Karlos Love
I am licensed in Oklahoma with 10 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress, anxiety, anger management, motivation, self esteem, confidence, depression and sports psychology/ performance. I also have experience working with coping with life changes. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I will tailor our dialog and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.
Joel Harris
I could have generated an AI description of myself, but it seemed so phony and disingenuous. I prefer to be real, genuine, and down to earth with people. I've been providing counseling for fifteen years in that time authenticity is essential. People want to know that they are talking to a real person, and that they can be real with that person. In truth, I see counseling as my ministry, my purpose. I find people fascinating and love to see their gifts shine through. For many, the journey has taken them down some dark and lonely roads. Maybe they feel like they are adrift at sea and don't know how to regain a solid footing. I love to be that person who comes alongside and helps them on this journey. Then their gifts, their sense of purpose, or the challenges that they are facing seem clearer or more manageable. I love working with people from all ages, but have a particular passion for those in the transitional ages of life (teenager/young adult). I feel comfortable addressing a number of issues including anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, and relationship issues. I come from a Christian perspective and love working with people interested in incorporating or addressing elements of faith, but truthfully, I work work with anyone looking for a compassionate, listening ear. I look forward to meeting you!
Annlyn Armstrong
As a licensed therapist in Oklahoma, I bring over 15 years of dedicated experience supporting individuals through life's complex emotional landscapes. My practice centers on helping clients navigate challenges like depression, anxiety, life transitions, and interpersonal dynamics with compassion and expertise. I specialize in addressing self-esteem, social anxiety, and personal growth, with a particular focus on supporting individuals experiencing isolation, relationship difficulties, and emotional healing. My approach is very relaxed and deeply empathetic and tailored to each person's unique journey, emphasizing self-love, purpose, and emotional resilience. My therapeutic work spans diverse areas including women's issues, workplace challenges, caregiver stress, and navigating significant life transitions. I create a supportive, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their experiences, develop meaningful coping strategies, and cultivate personal growth. I am committed to providing affirming, inclusive care that respects each individual's identity and lived experience. Therapy should not be intimidating. My goal is to walk with you on your own path, offering professional guidance as you move toward greater emotional well-being and self-understanding.
Tiamara Drew
As a licensed therapist serving Oklahoma, I dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate addiction, trauma, and relationship challenges. My practice centers on empowering clients through challenges like depression, anxiety, relationship dynamics, and personal growth. I bring a compassionate, culturally responsive approach to therapy, with a deep commitment to understanding each person's unique journey. My expertise spans diverse areas including trauma recovery, addiction support, communication challenges, and identity exploration. I'm particularly passionate about working with young adults, adults, families, and couples, addressing issues of self-love, attachment, and personal transformation. My approach is collaborative and affirming, creating a supportive space where clients can explore their experiences and develop meaningful strategies for healing and growth. Drawing from evidence-based practices, I aim to help clients build resilience, enhance self-understanding, and cultivate healthier relationships with themselves and others. I welcome individuals from all backgrounds and identities, offering a non-judgmental, affirming therapeutic environment. I know asking for help is hard, but I would love to help you and your family members get through any obstacles. I look forward to the opportunity to work with you!
Deborah Margerum
With over 25 years of dedicated experience, I specialize in supporting individuals navigating complex life challenges. My therapeutic approach centers on helping clients work through addictions, relationship dynamics, family conflicts, and personal growth. I have a deep understanding of women's experiences and offer compassionate guidance for those struggling with control issues, intimacy concerns, and significant life transitions. My practice is rooted in creating a supportive, empowering environment where clients can explore their strengths, develop healthier coping strategies, and transform challenging patterns. I believe in meeting each person exactly where they are, offering personalized support that honors their unique journey and potential for meaningful change. I also have been in recovery from alcoholism for the last 39 years. I understand alcoholism and addictions.
Ariel Brogdon
I am a licensed marital and family therapist in the state of Oklahoma. I work with clients who experience a wide range of symptoms and concerns, including, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, life transitions, and ADHD. I have also worked with many people who have experienced stress and communication problems. My therapy style is uplifting and interactive. I believe in treating everyone with fairness, sensitivity, and empathy. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, narrative, and solution-focused therapy. I will tailor our meetings and treatment plan to meet your individualized and specific needs. It takes vulnerability to take steps towards a healthier version of yourself. If you are ready to begin that journey I'm honored to come alongside and provide guidance and support. I look forward to working with you!
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Find a therapist near you in Pawhuska, Oklahoma
Finding a therapist near you in Pawhuska, Oklahoma starts with matching to a licensed professional who fits your needs, schedule, and goals. Oklahoma is home to people with diverse mental health needs across urban, suburban, and rural communities, which can make it challenging to find care. BetterHelp connects you with a licensed therapist through tailored matching, so you can begin care from home or wherever works for you.
The network includes over 30,000 licensed therapists globally, and over 4 million people have used BetterHelp to find support through online therapy. During matching, 93% of user preferences are met, which helps you connect with a therapist suited to what you are looking for. Whether you are searching for help with anxiety, trauma, affordable or insurance covered therapy, weekend or flexible scheduling, or virtual sessions, you can find a therapist and get started when you are ready.
Why work with a licensed therapist near you?
Working with a licensed therapist near you gives you access to professional mental health support from someone trained to help you understand and manage what you are going through. A licensed therapist can offer evidence-based approaches, a steady space to talk, and guidance tailored to your situation. In Oklahoma, online therapy can make that care more accessible, since sessions happen from home or wherever you are, without the need to travel to an office. This can help if your schedule is full, if travel is difficult, or if you simply prefer a more discreet setting. You can learn more about what a therapist does on the therapist role page.
Online therapy can be especially helpful for people living across Oklahoma, where access to in-person mental health care may vary by location.
What concerns can therapists help with?
Therapists can help with a wide range of concerns, including anxiety and stress, depression, trauma and PTSD, self-esteem and identity, people-pleasing and fear of rejection, insomnia and racing thoughts, workplace stress and burnout, substance use, parenting and co-parenting stress, grief and loss, and relationship and family challenges. Therapists on BetterHelp may draw on approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), depending on your needs and goals. You can explore support for specific concerns on pages such as generalized anxiety disorder, major depressive disorder, posttraumatic stress disorder, attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, and eating disorders.
Please note that therapists on BetterHelp do not provide psychiatric medication management or formal diagnoses.
Online therapy vs. in-person therapy in Oklahoma
Online therapy and in-person therapy both connect you with a licensed professional, and the main difference is how you meet. In Oklahoma, online therapy through BetterHelp lets you have sessions by phone, video, or in-app messaging, so you can meet from home or on a schedule that fits your life. In-person therapy takes place at an office and may involve travel and set appointment windows. Online therapy may be more accessible for people with busy schedules, limited transportation, or a preference for a more discreet setting. Both formats can support meaningful progress, so the right choice often comes down to what fits your life.
Finding a therapist that accepts insurance in Oklahoma
BetterHelp accepts insurance through many major insurance plans. Insurance availability and coverage may vary by state, plan, provider network, and therapist availability, and deductible status. Eligible members' average copay is $23 per session.
You can check your in-network status on the BetterHelp site through the sign up flow. If you prefer to pay without insurance, BetterHelp subscriptions range from $70 to $100 per week, billed as an alternative way to access the same care, and you can use HSA and FSA funds toward the cost. For a full breakdown of how BetterHelp works with insurance plans, see BetterHelp insurance coverage.
How BetterHelp helps you find the right therapist in Oklahoma
BetterHelp helps you find the right therapist in Oklahoma through personalized matching that considers your needs, preferences, and goals. After you answer a few questions during the sign up flow, you can be matched with a licensed therapist from a network of over 30,000 professionals, and 93% of user preferences are met during matching. The search and location matching cover common near-me needs, including anxiety, trauma, affordable or sliding-scale support, weekend or flexible scheduling, and virtual sessions. If your first match is not the right fit, you can switch therapists at no extra cost. When you are ready, you can get started and begin the process.
Therapists near you in Oklahoma
Below, you’ll find licensed therapists authorized to provide online therapy to adults across Oklahoma, including residents in Pawhuska.
Each provider meets state licensing requirements and has experience supporting clients with a wide range of mental health concerns using evidence-based therapeutic approaches.
Please note: Therapists on BetterHelp in Oklahoma do not provide psychiatric medication management or formal diagnoses.
Frequently asked questions about finding a therapist near me
How much does therapy cost near me?
Therapy costs near you can vary by provider, format, and payment method. With BetterHelp, subscriptions range from $70 to $100 per week, and you can use HSA and FSA funds toward the cost. BetterHelp also accepts insurance through many major insurance plans, and eligible members' average copay is $23 per session. Insurance availability and coverage may vary by state, plan, provider network, and therapist availability, and deductible status.
Does BetterHelp accept insurance?
Yes. BetterHelp accepts insurance through many major insurance plans. Insurance availability and coverage may vary by state, plan, provider network, and therapist availability. Eligible members' average copay is $23 per session. Check your in-network status on the BetterHelp site through the sign up flow. For a full breakdown of how BetterHelp works with insurance plans, see BetterHelp insurance coverage.
Is online therapy effective?
Online therapy can be an effective way to receive licensed mental health care for many common concerns. Research suggests that online therapy may support progress in ways comparable to in-person care for concerns such as anxiety and depression. On BetterHelp, you connect with a licensed therapist who can use evidence-based approaches such as CBT and DBT, and you can meet by phone, video, or in-app messaging.
Do I need a diagnosis to see a therapist?
No, you do not need a diagnosis to see a therapist. Many people begin therapy to work through stress, life changes, relationships, or personal growth without any diagnosis. Please note that therapists on BetterHelp do not provide psychiatric medication management or formal diagnoses. If you are looking for a starting point, personalized matching can connect you with a licensed therapist suited to your goals.
How quickly can I start therapy?
You can often start therapy within 24 to 48 hours of signing up with BetterHelp. After you answer a few questions during the sign up flow, personalized matching connects you with a licensed therapist, and you can schedule your first session once you are matched. This process is designed to help you begin care at your own pace, without a long wait.
Can I switch therapists if it’s not the right fit?
Yes. If you feel your therapist is not the right match, you can request to be matched with another licensed provider at no additional cost. You are able to do so through the BetterHelp user portal and select switch therapists if needed.
Is online therapy discreet?
Online therapy with BetterHelp offers a discreet setting where you can connect with a licensed therapist from the comfort of your home. Sessions take place by phone, video, or in-app messaging, so you can meet without going into an office. Your account and sessions are protected with strong safeguards, and you choose how and where you attend. This can make therapy feel more comfortable for people who prefer a discreet way to get support.
Find a Therapist in Pawhuska, Oklahoma
Ready to begin? BetterHelp can match you with a licensed therapist serving Pawhuska and the surrounding OK area. When you are ready to take the next step, get started.