Why can’t I show emotions anymore towards some things and my thoughts are dark
Thank you for reaching out with your question of concern. Let me see if I can help you. I will try my best with the little information you provided.
When individuals start to feel anger, it is usually because there is pain or hurt hiding behind it. It is much easier to feel anger than to feel pain or sadness. It also helps the person feel more in control, but also avoid feeling of sadness, etc. because it can be triggering and lead to depressive feelings and emotions.
When we feel anger, it could because we feel something "unjustly" happened to us and needs to be fixed or corrected. So, with this being said, it would be good for you to examine if you feel someone or something has mistreated you. If you are having a difficult time getting in touch with your emotions, it would be good to try and center yourself. You can try doing a self guided meditation, breath work, or journaling to help you focus on yourself and tap into your feelings more. It would also be good for you to open up to someone you trust so you can vent about what you have been feeling inside.
If you are unable to do this on your own, BetterHelp has many licensed therapists that can help you figure this out, sort out your feelings and thoughts, and work through what you are feeling. You may have a lot of defense mechanisms going on emotionally in order for you to self protect how you are really feeling and experiencing and a licensed profession can help you through many different techniques to sort it out and cope through this time in a healthy and productive way. The feelings of anger is usually related to a" fight, flight, or freeze" response of the sympathetic nervous system and it seems like that is what is happening to you. You stuck in this emotion and you are having a hard time really processing it out.
I hope this helps and I wish you nothing but the best in this journey of discovering your emotions.